In the midst of our hectic lives and across miles of distance, the bond I share with my girlfriends remains unbreakable. While packing up our home, I found myself surrounded by cardboard boxes, a much more pleasant task than breaking up another squabble between my kids. As I rummaged through the last box tucked away in the closet, memories from my college days flooded out—photos, handwritten notes, and various keepsakes from spring breaks, all reminders of the laughter and adventures shared with my friends.
Though those moments reside in that box, they don’t define the end of our story. Our friendship began in dorm rooms, and now it flourishes through voicemails, emails, texts, and the rare occasions when we can meet in person.
Now that we are all mothers, it would be easy to get lost in the demands of parenting. It’s all too simple to miss a call or forget to text back. With laundry to fold, sick kids to care for, and meals to plan, it’s tempting to let friendships fade amid the chaos of motherhood. But for us, the challenges we face—whether with kids, careers, or relocations—become opportunities to strengthen our connections rather than excuses to drift apart.
There was a time when we let too much time pass without connecting. We made excuses. But then we realized that waiting for the perfect moment to nurture our friendships was not an option. We needed to actively commit to each other; motherhood didn’t weaken our bond—it fortified it.
You’ll always be my girls.
I promise to listen, share tears, and embrace the fun times. I’ll be there for you through both joyous and tough moments. I fondly recall sitting on my grandpa’s lap, surrounded by the warm atmosphere of his wood-paneled kitchen, as he told me, “If you have five truly good friends in life, consider yourself fortunate.” As a child, I thought five was a small number, but as an adult, I understand the depth of his wisdom. I cherish my best friends—the women with whom I can laugh until I cry and cry until I laugh. These are my girls.
No matter the distance, time, or circumstances, you will always be my girlfriends. They remind me of the parts of myself that I often overlook, helping me rediscover who I am amidst the whirlwind of motherhood. Together, we create a space where we can be vulnerable and reveal the truths we keep hidden, those parts of ourselves not showcased on social media.
We lift each other up, bolstering confidence and providing support as we navigate life’s hurdles. We discuss everything from imposter syndrome to the significant moments weighing us down, reassuring one another that we are far from ordinary. Our time spent together is so precious that I often worry we won’t create new memories as wonderful as the ones we’re making. Yet, somehow, we always do.
After our latest weekend together, we stood by the car, suitcases piled next to us, tears flowing as we expressed how much we cherished one another. I noticed a woman in a nearby car watching us, and I could tell she saw what we all seek: that genuine friendship.
As we parted ways at the airport, I knew we would soon be swept back into the routine of parenting. No more leisurely mornings sipping coffee or late-night dinners filled with laughter. Yet, one thing remains certain—nothing can sever the bond of our friendship. You’ll always be my girls, even if a phone call, email, or text separates us.
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Summary
This piece reflects on the enduring bond of friendship among women, even as they navigate the challenges of motherhood and distance. The author emphasizes the importance of making time for friends, sharing laughter and tears, and supporting one another through life’s ups and downs. No matter the challenges faced, true friendship remains steadfast and invaluable.