Hey there! Yes, you — the one at this children’s sports game yelling at the referees and players, flailing your arms, and huffing with disdain. It’s time for you to take a step back. Grab a seat — or several — and maybe indulge in a hotdog (I’d be happy to buy you one) while the rest of us cheer for our kids and their teams with positivity, which is what we’re here for.
Let’s get real: this isn’t the World Cup or the Stanley Cup. It’s more like the Sippy Cup. These are kids! They’re out here playing and learning, and what they’re currently experiencing is your unfortunate behavior.
I understand that your child might be the “star player” carrying the team of “less talented” kids. But let’s be honest, blaming teammates, referees, or the weather for mistakes is just a little ridiculous. This is a game meant for fun, and with your intense pressure, you’re distracting them from enjoying it. They’re not professional athletes; nothing significant is at stake here. It’s a chance for them to engage and grow, not a high-stakes competition.
Other parents are feeling the strain too. It’s not easy sitting on those hard bleachers, so let’s keep the atmosphere pleasant. Your outburst isn’t helping anyone — least of all your child.
By modeling this behavior, you’re teaching your kid that being a public nuisance is acceptable. You could instead show them the value of good sportsmanship and how to handle losing with grace. Or continue to be the target of disapproving glances from the other parents who can’t believe your behavior.
Instead of letting your negativity take center stage, I’ll use you as a teaching moment for my child. I’ll point out how even adults can struggle with proper behavior and how important it is to manage frustration. More importantly, I’ll emphasize how proud I am that he remains kind and respectful.
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In summary, let’s encourage our children to enjoy their games and learn valuable life lessons, rather than mirroring the poor behavior of a few misguided adults.