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What the Netflix Series ‘Girlboss’ Taught Me About Pursuing Dreams in My 30s
Nothing ignites my enthusiasm quite like a powerful “You go, girl!” narrative. Watching a woman conquer challenges and create something extraordinary without worrying about her makeup—unless she chooses to—motivates me to chase whatever dream I’m currently focused on.
So, when Netflix released the first season of Girlboss, inspired by the journey of Sophia Amoruso and her fashion brand Nasty Gal, I was ready to binge-watch it. However, as I immersed myself in the episodes, I began to question whether I was too old to draw inspiration from her. Sure, she was inspiring, but could a 30-something like me really find empowerment in the triumphs of someone in their 20s?
Throughout the first season, we witness her transformation—from a young woman searching for her identity to someone who passionately pursues her dreams, overcoming setbacks and finally establishing her brand. She’s a vibrant and unpredictable spirit, occasionally emotionally volatile, yet undeniably fierce and resolute. What an empowering story.
As I watched, I couldn’t help but think, “Yes! I want to embody her spirit! She doesn’t take nonsense from anyone!” But here’s the catch: she’s a single woman in her 20s, while I’m a 34-year-old married mom with two kids. I have responsibilities and roots that limit my freedom to chase dreams like I once could. I can’t dedicate all my waking hours to my passions anymore because I have little ones to care for.
I won’t lie—I had a moment of self-pity, feeling like my aspirations were anchors weighing me down in a life that felt less adventurous. I reminisced about my younger days when the world felt limitless, and the late nights spent planning my future seemed a distant memory. I allowed myself to mourn the version of my life that had changed.
But then it hit me: I’m only 34. I’m still alive and capable of setting ambitious goals and pursuing my dreams; I just need to realign my expectations to match my current reality. Being a married mom doesn’t mean my aspirations are lost. The notion that my dreams disappeared after having children is a myth. I still have them, and I still have the right to chase them with the same fervor I had in my 20s. Moreover, it’s crucial that I do so, as my children are observing every step I take, and I want to be their example of resilience and determination.
Recently, my 3-year-old son expressed his desire to become the sun when he grows up. Like any supportive mom, I encouraged him, saying he could achieve anything he set his mind to. With wide eyes, he asked, “Mom, do you really think I can be the sun?” I confidently replied, “You can be anything you want to be.” While he can’t literally become the sun, I hope he internalizes the message that big dreams are possible with hard work.
My pursuit of dreams in my 30s serves as a powerful lesson for my kids. Age does not exclude you from chasing your ambitions, and having children doesn’t mean you must surrender your goals. It simply requires a more thoughtful approach to decision-making. You still have the capability to follow your passions, even with additional responsibilities.
In fact, this journey provides the added benefit of teaching my children that anything is achievable at any stage of life. All it takes is dedication and a strong belief in yourself that no one can take away. Inspiration knows no age limit. It’s perfectly fine for me to be motivated by a free-spirited 20-something and equally okay for me to inspire those in their 20s while I navigate my 30s. The key is to persist, support one another, and turn dreams into reality.
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In summary, age should never deter you from pursuing your dreams. Your journey can inspire not just yourself but also those around you.