Absolutely, that’s my nearly 4-year-old in a stroller, and honestly, I couldn’t care less about what onlookers think. People have plenty to say about it, and for those who seem shocked, let me clarify: I don’t drive, and we often navigate through a bustling city—New York City, to be specific. Our stroller is vital for getting around.
My little one can be quite easily distracted. While I do let him walk sometimes, depending on where we’re headed and his mood, it often turns into a time-consuming affair. I find myself constantly reminding him to pay attention, hold my hand, or not to climb every staircase we encounter. It can be exhausting! If I have somewhere to be, I need to conserve my energy, and my spirited child can turn a simple stroll into a workout.
Most of the time, I reserve the stroller for longer distances or shopping trips, where it becomes a lifesaver. In the city, I never leave without it. The crowds can be overwhelming, and even with him holding my hand, it’s easy for him to get tired or lost. His little legs can only carry him so far, and when he says, “Mommy, walk slowly!” while pulling on my arm, I know I need to adjust my pace. Until he can keep up with my stride, it’s much simpler to pop him in the stroller, especially if I need to hurry.
The stroller also provides a comforting little retreat for him. While he can be sociable, he can also be shy around strangers. When things get too intense, he can simply pull up the sunshade and tune out the chaos, which is beneficial for both of us. He has a snack tray for fruit snacks or M&Ms and a cup holder for his water, so I don’t have to keep stopping to give him a drink.
And let’s be honest—if he dozes off, I avoid the backbreaking task of carrying him. I love my son, but carrying a sleeping toddler feels like lifting a bag of bricks. I can recline the stroller back and let him sleep peacefully.
Shopping trips are also a breeze when he’s in the stroller. He’s a little runner, so not having to chase him around stores or worry about him touching everything makes the outing enjoyable for both of us and the other shoppers.
I’m always a bit taken aback by how many comments I receive about him being in a stroller. “Isn’t he too big for that?” is a common question. My response is typically, “He’s 3, so…” I don’t owe anyone an explanation about our choices. Sure, he can walk if he wants, but that’s really not their concern.
Let’s be real: if you had the option to be pushed around in a stroller with a sunshade and snacks within arm’s reach, wouldn’t you jump at it? Whether he’s 5 or older, it’s our arrangement, and it works for us.
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In summary, using a stroller for my preschooler is a practical choice that eases our daily outings. Despite the unsolicited opinions of others, I prioritize convenience and comfort for both of us.