Dear Bestie,

Thank You For Being My Lifelong Friend

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Some friendships come and go, while others endure the test of time. There are the childhood pals, the college buddies, the ones who help us navigate the chaotic waters of new motherhood, and the office mates we share our lunch breaks with. We have neighbors, acquaintances, and those friends we only see because of mutual connections.

But then there’s you and me.

We’ve been side by side for what feels like an eternity, and through thick and thin, you’re still here. I’m still here. We remain connected despite the ebb and flow of other friendships that have faded. Thank goodness for that.

Life has become increasingly hectic, and keeping friendships alive is certainly more challenging than when we could just pop over for a quick chat. Even so, you continue to be my go-to person, now and always.

We’re BFFs because I don’t feel the need to tidy up before you come over. You don’t judge me for the crumbs on my couch or the faint odor that lingers in my bathroom, despite my attempts to keep it fresh. You overlook (or feign ignorance about) the dust bunnies and those streaks on the windows, just as I do when I’m at your place. What we do notice are the new throw pillows from Target and the picture of us beaming on your mantelpiece.

We’re BFFs because we can embrace our awkwardness together without it ever feeling, well, awkward. We both detest small talk and prefer our conversations via text. We share a laugh when someone takes a tumble, and we enjoy each other’s company, even when we’re both just scrolling through our phones or tackling work emails.

We’re BFFs because we’ve seen each other at our most vulnerable moments. I’ve witnessed your post-surgery scars, and you’ve seen my less-than-flattering moments more times than I can count. We’ve tried on swimsuits in dressing rooms and shared brutally honest opinions. We’ve held each other’s hair back during bouts of sickness, whether from too many drinks, morning nausea, or serious treatments. We’ve swapped bras and makeup and have been through so much together.

We’re BFFs because, even when we don’t see eye to eye and may inadvertently hurt one another, we forgive swiftly. We understand each other’s intentions are pure and genuine.

We’re BFFs because, while our parenting styles might differ—whether it’s breastfeeding choices or how we handle time-outs—we agree on the essentials. We value allowing our kids to be their true selves. We’re not helicopter parents; we just believe in giving them ample independence, and, truthfully, we’re a bit lazy. When our families gather, we often send the kids off to play while we indulge in some gossip.

We’re BFFs because we lean on sarcasm and swearing to navigate the ups and downs of life—your sarcasm, my colorful language. We both choose to see the good in people and believe in giving second chances.

We’re BFFs because we’ve been there for each other through heartbreaks, relocations, and serious family illnesses without missing a beat. We’ve laughed until we cried, and yes, we’ve even had a few accidents together.

We’re BFFs because we share a love for books, shows, and movies—or not. You introduced me to Parks and Recreation, and I got you hooked on Schitt’s Creek. We exchange quotes from Arrested Development and The Office, and we both roll our eyes at 50 Shades of Grey.

We’re BFFs because we trust one another with our deepest secrets. We’ve navigated the highs and lows together, celebrating engagements and pregnancies with unrestrained joy. We’ve snuck drinks into hospitals and have had long, winding conversations that last for days. We’ve been there for each other through everything, big or small.

I often ponder what makes a friendship last, and it seems to boil down to a blend of respect and familiarity, mixed with a sprinkle of something magical. There’s a reason we became friends, and our bond has grown beyond words and explanations—it’s a complex tapestry woven from countless shared experiences.

We’re BFFs because we can go long stretches without seeing each other, relying on texts and social media updates, yet when we reunite, it feels like coming home. Friendship, while often messy, is worth it because we genuinely love and enjoy each other.

And let’s be honest, we know too many secrets to ever drift apart.

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In summary, our friendship is a beautiful blend of laughter, vulnerability, and unwavering support. Through every twist and turn, we’ve remained steadfast, proving that true friendship can withstand the test of time.