In the vast realm of online parenting blogs, a significant portion tends to lean heavily towards a mother’s perspective on childbirth, infants, toddlers, and everything in between. Much of this content is penned by women, myself included.
Yet, there are remarkable fathers out there, and some of them even share their insights through blogs that are both spot-on and often quite amusing. It’s a fact that hardworking, devoted dads don’t always receive the recognition they deserve. With Father’s Day approaching once again, I want to take a moment to acknowledge not only the incredible fathers I haven’t met but also my own partner, Jack.
Years ago, when Jack’s son (now my wonderful stepson, Liam) was a little boy, Jack playfully told him a story. He claimed he was Superman, explaining that he had to relinquish his superpowers to become a dad. It sounds ridiculous, right? Yet, Liam believed every word.
Fast forward to today, and Liam is nearly a teenager, realizing that his dad isn’t actually Superman. However, in many ways, Jack embodies the spirit of a superhero. I’ve never encountered a man who is as loving, generous, playful, strong, and hardworking. It’s no wonder Liam once thought his father had superhuman abilities.
The Reality of Fatherhood
Fatherhood, whether through single parenting, step-parenting, or adoption, deserves more acknowledgment. Society often expects fathers to exude strength, maintain composure, and provide financially without expressing their struggles. Many men who become fathers didn’t have the best role models in their own childhoods. Additionally, it’s unlikely that most men anticipate becoming single dads, as Jack did for several years.
Both men and women should share equal responsibilities when bringing a child into the world. Yet, society’s standards for fathers often remain lower than those for mothers. While we expect mothers to sacrifice everything for their children, we’re not always surprised when fathers fall short of expectations.
However, the reality is that the number of single dads with custody is increasing, and they face many of the same challenges as single mothers. As a stepparent, I want to highlight that the community of empowered stepmoms is growing, with many writing books and creating networks for support. Unfortunately, stepdads often remain overlooked. This isn’t intentional; it’s simply a reflection of a lack of visibility.
Many stepdads, like Jack, don’t openly share their feelings, but they face their own hurdles, much like biological dads within two-parent families. Jack is an incredible father, though not flawless—no one is. He’s engaged and concerned. He learns, disciplines, and enjoys time with his kids. He embodies what it means to be a caring parent, even if he doesn’t showcase his struggles publicly.
Celebrating Super Dads
So, here’s to my husband, my father, and all the men navigating the challenges of fatherhood. In a world where many feel compelled to share their experiences online, fathers don’t always broadcast their journeys.
But I see you, super dads. You’re changing diapers, carrying sticky toddlers, styling hair, and diving into the delightful chaos of parenting. Superman is fantastic, but so are you.
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In summary, let’s celebrate the fathers who are doing their best every day, often without the recognition they deserve. They may not wear capes, but their love and dedication make them heroes in the eyes of their children.