For families grappling with ADHD, medications can sometimes seem like a beacon of hope amidst the chaos. After years of resisting pharmaceutical solutions and exploring countless alternatives, I finally decided to try a minimal dosage for my son. The results were transformative; it felt like the clouds had parted after a long, dreary period. His school days improved, parent-teacher discussions became easier, and he expressed gratitude, wishing we had started sooner. For a time, we experienced a welcome respite from the usual struggles.
However, after several months, the medication’s effectiveness began to fade. My son’s challenges re-emerged, prompting his pediatrician to increase his dosage. While this worked temporarily, it soon became apparent that we needed to switch to another medication. The new option had mixed results; it alleviated some symptoms but introduced an unusual tic where he felt compelled to pull at his lower eyelids. Adjusting the dosage alleviated the tic, yet his ADHD symptoms remained largely unmanaged.
We tried yet another medication, but it disrupted his sleep and appetite, leading me to question whether improved focus in school was worth the toll on his overall well-being. The turning point came when my son asked if he could take a break from the medication. I wholeheartedly supported him, recognizing his discomfort. Since then, he has been off all prescriptions.
Living with unmedicated ADHD is challenging, as I witness my son struggle with focus, impulsivity, and hyperactivity. However, it was more distressing to see him suffer from sleepless nights and a lack of nutrition. To create a more supportive environment for his learning, we enrolled him in an online public school that allows me to assist him in staying focused. We are fortunate to have this option, which is beneficial for now.
I don’t intend to make any final decisions about medication for my son, nor do I judge others who choose to medicate their children. I understand how life-changing the right medication can be. However, in our case, finding the right balance proved too difficult, and I was unwilling to jeopardize his health for temporary fixes. For now, we are taking a break, and any future considerations about medication will depend entirely on his wishes. After all, it’s his experience that matters most, and he deserves to feel as normal as possible, even if his normal is unique.
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In summary, my journey with my son’s ADHD medication has been complex, filled with both hope and challenges. We are currently focusing on his well-being without medication, prioritizing his happiness and comfort above all else.