Recently, I borrowed the complete first season of the classic TV series “Little House on the Prairie” from a friend. I envisioned cozy evenings with my children, introducing them to the simple pleasures of life on the American frontier. While it’s not necessarily a life of ease, it does offer a slower, more straightforward lifestyle. I thought it would be a refreshing change from the loud, sarcasm-filled shows like “Jessie” or “Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles.”
However, my husband, who had never watched the show before, pointed out the harsh realities of frontier living. He focused on the physical demands and stress associated with survival, which somewhat dimmed the idyllic image I had in mind. Though he overlooked some aspects—like the dangers of childbirth—it sparked meaningful conversations about gender roles and the realities of life back then.
My 9-year-old, who had read some of Laura Ingalls’ books, was captivated by the stories. She had countless questions: How did Ma bake bread over a fire? Why was there a teenager in the same classroom as little kids? Did doctors really visit their patients? These inquiries led to reflections on our own childhoods, where we also faced challenges, albeit in a different era—like using a rotary phone and having no internet access!
Watching “Little House on the Prairie” not only brought back fond memories for me but also emphasized the importance of simplicity in our lives today. Here are some essential lessons we can learn from the Ingalls family:
- Embrace Screen-Free Family Time: A quiet evening at home shouldn’t involve any electronics. So next time we declare a “family night,” you might not see us knitting or playing music as they did, but we also won’t be glued to screens. Instead, enjoy talking, reading, or playing together before heading off to bed.
- Understand Family Responsibilities: Setting the table, taking care of pets, and cleaning your room are not mere chores; they are family responsibilities. In contrast, chores are the arduous tasks faced by frontier children after a long day. It’s crucial to appreciate the distinction.
- Value Your Health and Healthcare: It can be easy to take our health for granted, but watching Doc Baker pull Laura’s tooth with just chloroform and pliers is a stark reminder of how fortunate we are to have modern medical care.
- Cherish Your Support System: Everyone needs a “Mr. Edwards” in their life—a dependable friend who supports you through thick and thin. They’re the ones who will always be there, no questions asked.
- Know Where Your Food Comes From: Food doesn’t just appear on supermarket shelves; it comes from the earth. It requires effort to grow and prepare, but it’s worth it to know you’re eating healthy, fresh food. Thank goodness we have better tools than the Ingalls had!
- Appreciate Your Teachers: You will always remember your favorite teacher. In the case of frontier kids, it’s likely the only teacher they’ll ever have. Value and thank them, because they shape who you become.
- Find Joy in Simple Moments: Whether it’s playing alone by the creek or spending time with a sibling, these moments can be just as fulfilling as more exciting adventures.
- Expect a ‘Nellie Oleson’ in Your Life: There will always be that one person who seems to have it all. But remember, you have something more valuable—a loving family and a wealth of experiences that can’t be bought.
The lessons from prairie life are reminders that simplicity and connection are what truly matter. If you’re interested in exploring more about family life and parenting, check out this blog post on home insemination and family planning.
In conclusion, the simplicity of prairie life offers timeless lessons that resonate today.