My kids and I enjoy music constantly, whether at home or in the car; however, we never switch on “traditional” radio stations. Instead, we groove to my curated playlists or a favorite station on Pandora. When the kids have a special request—be it Taylor Swift’s “Shake It Off” or the catchy “Mahna Mahna” from The Muppets—YouTube is just a click away.
Recently, while driving, Pandora played a track my 7-year-old adores, and when it concluded, he asked for it again.
“I want that song again!” he insisted.
“I can’t play it again,” I replied.
This concept baffled him. I tried to explain how Pandora operates, selecting songs randomly, and that we couldn’t revisit one unless it happened to play again. “Wait for it?” he asked, puzzled. I understood his confusion. In their world, technology provides everything on-demand, tailored to their preferences. If a song doesn’t make the cut, it’s just a quick “thumbs down” away from oblivion. Their favorite shows on streaming platforms are ad-free and can be paused anytime. Any curiosity is satisfied with a quick Google search, and every memorable moment is captured instantly by digital cameras.
They’ve never experienced a reality where technology isn’t at their beck and call. It’s both incredible and a bit sad. While today’s technology has undeniable benefits, I wouldn’t trade my own childhood—filled with tangled phone cords, cassette tapes, and the pages of Teen Beat—for anything. We embraced life in a way that granted us lessons that today’s kids will need to find elsewhere. Here are just a few.
We Learned to Relish the Moment
Remember that exhilarating thrill when your favorite song suddenly played on the radio? Time seemed to freeze for those three minutes. It didn’t matter if you were late; it felt like fate. You couldn’t just grab your phone and replay it. You had to wait for your next trip to the record store to buy the cassingle.
Now, there’s less time to savor. With the convenience of iTunes, Netflix, and DVRs, we’ve lost the urgency to truly enjoy those moments. In the ’80s, recording a favorite show on a VCR was a rare event, reserved for when you absolutely couldn’t watch it live. Animated specials were annual treats, not accessible at the push of a button. We feel entitled to instant gratification.
Waiting Taught Us Patience
In my youth, my sister and I would spend hours by the radio, eagerly waiting for Casey Kasem’s American Top 40 countdown, ready to hit “record” on our massive boombox. Chasing a favorite tune was a labor of love.
Today, patience is a lost virtue. If my laptop or the kids’ tablets take more than a few seconds to load, chaos ensues. That expectation of instant access has permeated into adult life as well. The thrill of a season finale is dulled when you can binge-watch the next three seasons without a break.
We Could Focus on One Thing at a Time
Back in the day, if we were on the phone, we weren’t multitasking. We stood still, often twirling the curly cord as we chatted with friends. Now, we juggle texting, scrolling through social media, and watching TV all at once. My kids aren’t there yet, but they’re learning from our example.
Celebrities Were a Mystery, and That Was Fine
While we eagerly devoured every issue of Teen Beat, our knowledge of celebrities was limited. There were no social media platforms revealing their every move. This distance allowed us to have crushes without obsession. When my best friend and I sent a fan letter to our favorite actor, we waited weeks for a response—a generic postcard, no less. The disappointment was palpable, but we moved on.
We Realized We Weren’t the Center of the Universe
Voices like Casey Kasem, Paul Harvey, and Garrison Keillor captivated us with stories unrelated to our lives. We listened without expecting the world to revolve around us. We pretended to create music videos in our basements, not seeking viral fame.
I might be part of the last generation to hold onto the memory of a faceless voice like Casey Kasem’s, a voice that could still evoke nostalgia. Today, my kids have Siri, a voice that responds to their commands rather than inspires them to listen. They’re fortunate to have her, but we were lucky to have had our own unique experiences.
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In summary, while technology has certainly transformed our lives, it has also changed how we experience the world. The lessons of patience, focus, and appreciation for moments are ones that today’s kids will need to cultivate in different ways.