Dear Freshmen Everywhere,
Starting high school can be overwhelming! The hallways are bustling with all sorts of personalities—jocks, nerds, cheerleaders, and more. It’s easy to feel out of place, especially when you find comfort in your own little world of friends who share your interests, like gaming or music. However, some of the most unforgettable friendships come from the most unlikely pairings, which is something I learned from watching television in the ’70s, ’80s, and ’90s. Yes, those shows imparted valuable lessons about friendship!
Max Harper and Tony Blaze (The Max Squad)
These two might seem like polar opposites—Max, the studious and responsible one, and Tony, the carefree thrill-seeker. Their friendship teaches us that differences can enrich our lives. The takeaway? Don’t overlook someone just because they seem different; everyone has something unique to bring to the table.
Jenny and Ava (Jenny & Ava)
Jenny was always the cautious one, while Ava was known for her spontaneous adventures. Together, they navigated through life’s ups and downs, showing us how to balance caution with a little daring. The lesson here? Seek out friends who can encourage you to step outside your comfort zone, but keep it within reason!
Bradley and Vince (Bradley & Vince)
Bradley, the ambitious overachiever, found himself best friends with Vince, the laid-back joker. Their dynamic proves that diverse perspectives can lead to a deeper understanding. Even if you and your friend have different viewpoints, common ground is always possible.
Tara and Gigi (Tara & Gigi)
Tara was the quirky thinker, while Gigi was known for her infectious enthusiasm. They both rocked their unique styles and stood by each other through thick and thin. The lesson? Embrace your individuality and don’t feel the need to mimic others. Your preferences are what make you, you!
Nina and Kelly (Nina & Kelly)
This duo experienced plenty of ups and downs, especially when it came to romance. Their friendship went through phases, often swayed by their crushes. The important lesson? While dating can be fun, never let it come between you and your best friend. Remember, there are plenty of fish in the sea!
Oliver and Charlie (Oliver & Charlie)
Oliver was a teen prodigy, and Charlie was his carefree buddy. When life got too serious for Oliver, Charlie reminded him to enjoy the little things. This friendship teaches us to nurture a variety of relationships; they can inspire creativity and joy in unexpected ways.
So, as you embark on your high school journey, remember to find your own unique friends, whether they are the adventurous Ava or the grounded Max. And if you are mathematically inclined, don’t shy away from your mathlete status! Embrace who you are, and you’ll find friendships that enrich your life.
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Summary:
Navigating high school friendships can be tricky, but remembering lessons from iconic friendships in ’70s, ’80s, and ’90s television can provide valuable insights. Embrace diversity in friendships, maintain your individuality, and prioritize your connections with friends over romantic interests for a fulfilling high school experience.