Life began for us in a small apartment, just after we exchanged our vows, tossed rice, opened gifts, and tucked away a long satin gown for safekeeping. Our “table for two” was often a couch paired with an old wooden box we called a coffee table, where two dinner plates would rest side by side. Cooking together and washing dishes became our shared rituals, a perfect setup for just the two of us.
After a long week of hard work, weekends turned into cherished moments spent together—running errands, trying to stay active, binge-watching TV shows, and simply enjoying each other’s company. Those times feel like a distant memory now.
For about seven years, we reveled in our life as a couple. Then, everything transformed when we welcomed our first child. The whirlwind of new parenthood was an adventure I was thrilled to share with someone I loved deeply. I always knew he would make a fantastic father. Before long, we had a second child, and our home buzzed with the energy of kids and a few pets to keep things interesting. We dove headfirst into this parenting journey, which was nothing short of extraordinary—challenging at times, but ultimately rewarding.
Fast forward twenty-eight years, and we find ourselves sitting at our expansive dining table—no longer on the couch, but at a place meant for gatherings. Our son is engrossed in college, juggling work and friendships, while his 17-year-old sister is busy with school and her own social life. This is what we had envisioned all those years ago: healthy, happy children, actively pursuing their dreams.
Now, in the quiet moments when it’s just the two of us, I’m reminded of all the little reasons why I said “yes” to this life. It’s crucial to nurture the “us” alongside our roles as Mom and Dad. Because inevitably, we return to that table for two—and I wouldn’t choose anyone else to share it with.
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In summary, from a humble beginning as a couple to navigating the complexities of parenthood, our journey has been filled with laughter, challenges, and the joy of returning to a “table for two.”