As I gaze at Mia, peacefully sleeping, I can’t help but admire her beauty. Her large, almond-shaped eyes seem to dance between shades of blue and brown, while her tiny hands and chubby feet are nestled comfortably in my embrace. Although her breathing is labored due to a cold, the stillness of her body reassures me that this journey was destined for us.
Mia’s extra chromosome is not an error. It’s not something to be fixed. She has Down syndrome, and this is simply part of her unique design.
Just then, Noah enters the room. It’s been a challenging night for our family. He wriggles into my other arm, burying his head against my shoulder. His restless legs stir Mia awake. She blinks at him through sleepy eyes, and as soon as she recognizes her brother, her initial confusion transforms into pure joy. With a burst of energy, she wriggles free from my grasp and leaps onto Noah, who feigns annoyance while quoting lines from his favorite shows. “She’s just a baby, she doesn’t do much…” he chuckles, playfully pushing her to the ground before returning to our cuddle.
I can’t help but laugh. This was meant to be.
Noah’s autism is not a fault. It’s not an abnormality. He has autism, and that’s part of who he is.
I have come to embrace the way my children were born. Acceptance doesn’t mean I don’t wish their paths were smoother. It doesn’t mean I am at peace with Mia’s frequent illnesses or Noah’s struggles to find calm in his own body. I tirelessly work to secure the best resources for them, yet I love them for their authentic selves. I want the world to see Mia and Noah—not just their diagnoses. I wish for them to be recognized as equals, unique in their own right.
Being different is a beautiful gift. It brings vibrancy and depth to our lives. I cherish the qualities that set me apart and the diverse individuals I’ve met along the way, for they have taught me invaluable lessons. Everyone possesses their own beauty, worth, and the right to be accepted for who they truly are.
We were never meant to be identical. We were designed to be distinct. You are meant to be your true self, shaped by your unique perspective on life and the experiences that mold you. Don’t conform to expectations.
You were meant to be, too.
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In summary, embracing our children’s unique traits has led to a richer understanding of what it means to love and accept them fully. Each child’s individuality adds color and depth to our lives, reminding us that we are all meant to be exactly who we are.