Pregnancy is a remarkable journey, one that I’ve experienced multiple times in my 20s. Now, as I approach the 29th week of my third pregnancy, I often ponder why I willingly embrace this adventure. It’s simple: my love for pregnancy matches my love for babies. Even though I’m not the easiest person to be pregnant—complaining about heartburn, fatigue, and other discomforts—I find an extraordinary joy hidden beneath all of that. Here are ten delightful aspects of being pregnant that keep me coming back for more.
- Feeling Those Kicks: The sensation of tiny limbs dancing across my belly is nothing short of miraculous. Each little jab and kick is a reminder that I’m not alone, and it fills my heart with love for the little one growing inside me.
- Being Pampered: I’m not ashamed to say I enjoy being treated like royalty. Whether it’s strangers holding doors or friends offering to help, I relish this special treatment. It feels like I’m part of an exclusive club where being helped is not just accepted; it’s celebrated.
- Deedles: I cherish my nightly ritual of “deedles” with my partner, Max. After a long day, he tickles my back with his rough hands until I drift off to sleep. It’s a unique comfort that a professional massage could never replicate.
- Creating Life: As someone who thrives on creation, I see pregnancy as the ultimate artistic endeavor. I’m nurturing something that will soon be a part of this world, which is an incredible feeling.
- Food Adventures: My love for food intensifies during pregnancy. I can indulge in the same cravings day after day, and each bite satisfies my soul in ways I can’t describe.
- A License to Vent: While I try not to overdo it, pregnancy gives me a free pass to express my frustrations. After a tiring day, if I need to shed a few tears over a meal, I embrace it without guilt.
- Embracing My Beauty: It’s not about physical appearance; rather, it’s about how I feel. There’s something truly beautiful about carrying life inside me that enhances my sense of self-worth.
- The Thrill of Anticipation: Although I sometimes struggle with the waiting game, I love the challenge it presents. It encourages me to slow down and appreciate each moment, knowing that these fleeting days are precious.
- Boosted Confidence: Normally reserved, my pregnancy gives me an unexpected surge of confidence. I feel empowered to take on the world, or simply enjoy a well-earned nap, all while radiating positivity.
- Sibling Bonds: Watching my children, Jamie and Lily, develop their own sibling relationship and prepare for their new brother is heartwarming. Their curiosity and love for the baby fill our home with joy. It’s a beautiful transformation that enriches our family dynamic.
Being pregnant can be challenging and exhausting, but reflecting on these ten joyful aspects makes me grateful for this experience. If you’re on a similar journey or exploring options, be sure to check out this helpful resource for information about pregnancy and home insemination. And if you’re looking for the right tools, consider this at-home insemination kit to assist you along the way. If you have any questions or need support, feel free to reach out through this contact page for further guidance.
In summary, the journey of pregnancy is filled with a myriad of emotions and experiences that, despite the challenges, can be deeply rewarding.