A few years ago, I organized a surprise 30th birthday celebration for my partner, Sam. It was a cozy gathering with about 30 of our closest friends and family. For months, I meticulously planned the decorations, drinks, and menu. (We went with gold accents, pomegranate martinis, and a variety of appetizers, in case you were wondering!) However, there was one crucial detail I overlooked: preparing a toast.
During the festivities, Sam looked at me and asked if I planned to say a few words. A toast? Uh-oh… My heart raced as I stood there in our living room, nervously mumbling, “Thanks everyone for being here… Happy Birthday, Sam!” I could tell it wasn’t the heartfelt speech he had envisioned.
I found myself surrounded by familiar faces—some I had known for over a decade—and yet I couldn’t string together a coherent thought. It was an embarrassing moment for me.
Fast forward to now: I just learned that I’ve been invited to be a keynote speaker at an upcoming conference in just two weeks. Initially, I was thrilled—what an amazing opportunity to speak to some of the most influential people in the industry and catch up with friends!
But then reality set in: a couple of thousand people, me on stage, speaking. Cue the panic! Okay, maybe I didn’t actually faint, but I definitely felt lightheaded.
Seeking Advice on Public Speaking
So, does anyone have any advice for tackling public speaking? Other than the classic “imagine them in their underwear”? Because honestly, that just makes me think about wanting a tummy tuck and a breast lift!
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Conclusion
In summary, organizing memorable events can be a challenge, especially when it comes to public speaking. Whether it’s for a birthday party or a major conference, preparation is key, and it’s okay to feel nervous.