If you’re navigating the rollercoaster of raising boys on the brink of adulthood, stick around. Here are some pearls of wisdom I hope my teenage sons will eventually embrace, if they ever decide to tune in.
- Cherish your friendships; they are invaluable, and being a loyal friend is essential.
- Women have an acute sense of smell—believe me, it matters.
- Concealing your mistakes reveals poor character. True men admit their faults, apologize sincerely, and seek to make amends.
- Avoid sending private photos. Trust me, that image could end up in your grandmother’s social media feed, and no one wants that.
- You are defined by your character, not your possessions or lifestyle. If you’re unhappy, simply changing your car or diet won’t fix the underlying issues.
- Cleanliness and thoughtfulness are attractive. Excessive drinking is not.
- While video games aren’t the cause of violence, they won’t enhance your role as a son, student, or friend. Use moderation.
- Sleep won’t solve everything, but lack of it will create fresh problems to face.
- Set NYTimes.com as your homepage; it’ll boost your knowledge.
- Junk food is a teenage staple, but as you approach your twenties, your body will crave nutritious meals. Honor that need.
- Playing sports is key to both happiness and health. Keep them in your routine.
- Choosing a partner is a monumental decision—balance your heart and your mind.
- If you’re unsure whether you can pull off a trendy outfit, chances are, you can’t.
- Skimping on a haircut will lead to instant regret.
- Your platonic female friends will be vital in your life; treat them with kindness.
- Always stand by your siblings; they are irreplaceable and will remember your shared childhood.
- If you sense your parents would disapprove of your actions, take a moment to ensure you’ve considered their potential questions before moving forward.
- Your twenties are a time to explore risk; don’t shy away from it.
- Invest a little more in quality shampoo and deodorant—they’re worth it.
- Keep two well-pressed white shirts handy; you never know when an interview or a visit from your girlfriend’s parents will pop up.
- Stock up on underwear; it will dictate your laundry habits.
- If you sleep with someone, reach out the next day, even if just with an emoji. If you even think about acting like you don’t know her, picture my face.
- Thoughtful gifts for holidays or special occasions show you care. If a girl seems disappointed by the cost, reconsider your relationship.
- Be the kind of leader, mentor, and friend you wish you had.
- Complete what you start, whether it’s toothpaste, meals, or promises to others.
- Your word is your bond; anyone who disagrees is proving my point.
- Technology won’t bring happiness; the connections you make through it will. Don’t confuse the two.
- If a woman tries to change you, run—unless it’s about hygiene, exercise, or diet; then, listen up.
- Your manners reflect your upbringing; don’t embarrass us.
- Life and people will let you down—don’t forget, your parents are here to help you through it.
- Men’s piercings are a fading trend; don’t get caught up in that.
- Aspirin, water, and black coffee can remedy many issues—together or separately.
- When shopping with a woman, avoid blanket compliments; instead, tell her what looks great on her.
- If your friends are unkind, you’ll likely follow suit; choose wisely.
- Be kind to your parents; you’ll want them around when it’s time for your own vacations.
- Respond to your mother’s texts promptly; it might just keep your phone bill paid.
- Quality over quantity applies to shoes and suits alike.
- Toothbrushes have an expiration date—don’t forget that.
- Learn to swing a golf club or cast a fishing rod; you’ll find it useful.
- Never use your size to intimidate others unless it’s a sports game; otherwise, you’ll find yourself in trouble.
- Drugs will cloud your judgment, drain your finances, and lead you into unsavory circles. Understand the risks.
- Smile in photos; you never know where they might end up.
- If you have a rash or injury, take a picture and send it. Moms are great at diagnosing, even digitally.
- When you visit home for a meal, remember to bring a positive attitude—these comforts are not guaranteed.
- Randomly calling your parents is always a good idea.
- If you only share the good, no one will know the real you.
- Never assume anything about someone else’s circumstances; we can often be mistaken.
- Always put the toilet seat down—no arguments.
- Your girlfriend or wife can be your best friend, but living with her requires a different mindset.
- Remember that the internet is permanent; think before you post.
- If you think you’re ready for kids but are unsure, start with a dog.
- No one is fully prepared for parenthood; it’s always a leap.
- It’s wise to have kids close to at least one grandparent; emergencies will arise.
- Always bring a small gift when invited to someone’s home; it shows appreciation.
- You’ll soon be in a position to help others; be generous in offering support.
- Remember, you are shaped by your upbringing—show gratitude to your teachers and schools.
- Don’t neglect your mail; some letters require your attention. Ignoring them can lead to unpleasant surprises.
- Be the person others confide in; those in pain seek out kind hearts.
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In summary, these lessons aim to guide my sons as they navigate the complexities of life, relationships, and responsibilities. Each point serves as a reminder of the values and principles that foster growth and understanding.