Many professionals claim to be working 80 hours a week, but according to a report by the New York Times, that’s often an exaggeration. A study by a professor at Boston University’s Questrom School of Business revealed that in a workplace culture that prizes dedication and long hours, employees generally fell into three categories: those who genuinely put in the time and delivered results, those who negotiated more family-friendly hours, and a third group (mostly men) who masqueraded as high performers while actually being part of the latter category. They would strike secret agreements with colleagues who also had children, covering for each other when needed, and limiting business trips to those that were close to home. The first and third groups received glowing performance evaluations, while the second group faced penalties. The key takeaway? If you’re aiming for a work-life balance alongside professional success, a little strategic fibbing might be necessary. Here are seven little white lies to keep handy:
- “That client and I have a fantastic relationship.” (Truth is, the client is just a short drive away, allowing me to be back home by 5:30.)
- “Oh no, I can’t, I have another client meeting on Friday at 3.” (Actually, I’ll be busy taking care of the class turtle for its weekend with us!)
- “I’m leading this project.” (Jane is the actual lead, but she’s home with her sick child. So, for now, I’m stepping in as the lead. Just don’t call Jane unless you want to hear about her battle with norovirus.)
- “We’re targeting 70% engagement by March.” (I can achieve 80%, but I’d rather look like a hero while juggling emails with one hand and feeding a turtle with the other.)
- “This project is right up Jesse’s alley, don’t you think?” (Jesse’s more than capable of handling it.)
- “Jack and I will be strategizing at an off-site tomorrow—catch you on Friday.” (In reality, Jack and I are just hanging out since it’s a teacher development day and the kids are off school.)
- “I’m out in the field.” (Actually, I’m dealing with a deceased turtle.)
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In summary, a bit of creative storytelling can help you navigate the tricky waters of work and family life. Sometimes, a little white lie here and there can make a world of difference.