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The Greatest Mom in the Universe
“Mom, if I could choose anyone to be my mother, it would be you,” my 9-year-old daughter, Mia, declared one day.
“That’s so kind,” I replied, feeling a mix of happiness and skepticism. “Why do you say that?”
“Because you’re the greatest mom ever!” she exclaimed before skipping out of the room.
Really? I’m not so sure about that.
There are plenty of days when I feel like I’m failing as a parent. I’m not talking about being in the same league as those who harm their children—no, that’s a completely different issue. Instead, I’m grappling with my own version of imperfection, one that, as Mary Poppins would say, falls short of being “practically perfect in every way.”
I find myself rushing the kids through breakfast, barking orders as they dawdle before school. I might threaten to hide my toddler’s beloved toy if she doesn’t stop her lion impersonation while we eat. I roll my eyes when my sixth grader dramatically collapses on the floor after stubbing her toe, and I lose my patience while my middle child recounts her day in exhausting detail. Sometimes, I even daydream about life without children.
But despite everything, you should still choose me.
You should choose me because I’m not afraid of spiders or scaling high mountains. I’m not intimidated by scraped knees either. While failure doesn’t faze me, the thought of not even trying does. Courage takes heart and confidence. I can teach you how to be brave, but it’s equally important to understand that seeking help is a strength, and knowing your limits can lead you to reach your goals with others by your side.
You should choose me because I can cartwheel, skateboard, roller skate, and ice skate. I genuinely enjoy going to baseball games—not just for the snacks! Watching you score goals in soccer, even if you miss, fills me with pride.
You should choose me because I’ll hold your hand during takeoff and landing. Transitions—whether they are joyful or challenging—can be daunting. Having someone to grasp during those moments makes all the difference.
You should choose me because I will always be honest with you. I won’t sugarcoat the truth just to spare your feelings; instead, I’ll share what you need to know, even if it stings or shines too brightly to see it well at first. Truth can be a tricky thing—some crave it while others shy away. Find your balance in both sharing and receiving it.
You should choose me because I know just how you like to nestle against my arm while I tuck you in at night. I know how to give you a goodnight kiss without getting caught in your headgear. When I leave your room, I will always respond to your “night-night-love-you” with the same affection.
You should choose me because I prepare your lunches fresh every morning; it’s how I express my love for you.
You should choose me because I believe in magic. This includes everything from the Tooth Fairy to the little miracles in nature, like the peonies that bloom year after year against all odds. The universe is a wondrous place, and it’s amazing that we get to be a part of it.
You should choose me because we are so alike. We’re perfectionists who struggle with mistakes, often taking on the weight of others’ emotions. We overflow with excitement and brilliant ideas, bursting forth like kittens eager for affection.
So yes, choose me, because no one knows you better or loves you more. I may not be perfect, but I am the greatest mom in the universe as long as I can be your mom.
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Summary
This heartfelt piece explores the ups and downs of motherhood, capturing the essence of parental love amidst the chaos of daily life. The author reflects on her imperfections while highlighting the unique bond shared with her children. Despite moments of doubt, she emphasizes enduring love, bravery, and the magic found in family.