Over the past few years, I’ve encountered buzz about a social media-driven initiative known as “No Buy November.” The idea is simple: limit purchases to essentials throughout the month. While food and basic necessities are acceptable, purchases for services like haircuts and spa visits are also included. This movement is inspired by environmentally friendly practices: buying less means reducing waste in landfills, conserving energy, and curbing unnecessary spending.
I understand the concept—sort of. If I were a younger, child-free, more bohemian version of myself, I might fully embrace it. But as a mom in my mid-thirties with three kids and not a shred of hipster cred, I find it hard to give up shopping in November.
Let’s face it: November is the Month of Abundance. It’s a time for grand feasts and festive gatherings. While food purchases are permitted, can I also grab Thanksgiving decorations? Those charming pinecone-and-jute turkeys at my local store are practically begging me to create a warm holiday atmosphere at home. And just a few aisles over is my all-time favorite scarf, now available in a rainbow of colors—all on sale, thanks to the chilly weather!
But it’s not just about the decor. November ignites my Christmas shopping spirit, which I’ve been dreaming about since September. I’m not talking about the craziness of Black Friday; I refuse to wake up at the crack of dawn to stand in line for the latest gadget. However, when I find that Target catalog in my mailbox at the beginning of November, it’s hard to resist. My kids eagerly circle every “hot toy” while clutching their Wish Lists. And that enticing coupon for 25% off one item? It would be irresponsible not to use it before it expires!
Perhaps I could consider the No Buy movement if I didn’t have a sleigh to fill and a constant influx of growing kids who need new shoes and clothing. It’s tough to say no when their pants suddenly seem too short after what feels like just a month.
Honestly, I’d back a No Buy initiative if it took place during the summer, when shorts are more forgiving for growth spurts and flip-flops can be worn until they fall apart.
So here’s my proposition: let’s initiate No Buy July! In July, there’s no need to fill sleighs or prepare extravagant meals. We could host a potluck for the Fourth of July, where neighbors bring whatever they can find in their freezers to grill up together. The games could involve a hose and a wiffle ball, with decorations provided by the warm summer sun. Spending time at the pool? That’s a must! Moms know that’s the best place to finally finish off those half-eaten snack boxes lurking in the pantry.
As for No Buy November? No, thanks. But let’s revisit this conversation in about eight months!
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In summary, while I appreciate the sentiment behind No Buy November, the reality of my life as a busy mom means I have to keep shopping for necessities, especially during this festive season.