Updated: June 19, 2016 | Originally Published: January 22, 2012
This month marks the 27th anniversary of the day my husband and I first crossed paths. When I say “celebrate,” I really mean we’ll likely overlook it entirely. Given that we’ve known each other for almost three decades, I’ve spent more of my life with him than without him.
It didn’t take long after our initial meeting for us to realize that we wanted to take our relationship beyond casual outings. Some of this was due to him needing help taking care of his dog while he attended evening classes, but that’s a story for another time. While we’ve faced our share of challenges on the path to our happily ever after, I feel confident in saying that after 27 years, we’ve built a sturdy foundation. We find happiness together, even during the rough patches.
So, what makes our marriage work despite the odds? Here are a few surprising reasons:
- Diverse Interests: While we share core values and life goals, we don’t have many overlapping interests. I admire couples who garden together, restore furniture, or embark on culinary adventures. For us, our idea of quality time often revolves around napping and watching TV.
- Not My Type: You might wonder how I can say that after so many years together. But the truth is, my list of attractions includes actors like Chris Hemsworth and Denzel Washington, while my husband is fair-skinned with a sprinkle of freckles. He’s undeniably handsome in his own right, and after all these years, attraction transcends mere appearances.
- Shoe Policy: My husband insists on wearing his shoes inside the house, which I’ve learned to accept. While I prefer to kick off my shoes the moment I enter, he seems to feel more comfortable staying in his. Even after all this time, I still find myself asking, “Where are you headed?” every weekend morning when he strolls out in his shoes.
- Football Obsession: Growing up with a father who was a football fanatic, I swore I’d never marry a man who shared that enthusiasm. Yet, here I am, married to a die-hard fan who can get quite animated during games. At least he doesn’t gamble on the outcomes!
- Reading Preferences: I’m an avid reader, while my husband enjoys books but not at the same level. Fortunately, I can indulge in my reading while he’s engrossed in yet another football match.
- Movie Tastes: My husband loves war and prison films, while I’m not a fan of either genre. Luckily, he’s understanding and lets me pick the movie when we’re out, often treating me to popcorn.
- Financial Habits: I tend to spend freely, while my husband is more of a saver. If it were up to him, we’d still be using that old, mismatched furniture he had when we met. I’ve definitely raised our standards since then!
- Lack of Athleticism: My husband wishes I shared his love for outdoor activities like hiking and paddleboarding, but I’m content to stay indoors.
- Culinary Differences: He grew up in Wisconsin, where bratwurst is practically a staple, while I hail from New York, where hot dogs reign supreme. My first bratwurst experience came only after meeting him!
So, what’s the secret to our enduring marriage? We choose to love one another every single day, even on days when we’d prefer to be alone. Whether it’s during a tough game or when he’s engrossed in yet another movie, we remain committed to each other, even when the UPS delivery person brings me shoes I definitely didn’t need.
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