As a military spouse, I often hear comments from civilian friends like, “I don’t know how you manage it all.” I can’t help but smile because, while there are challenges, the rewards of military life are truly enriching. Yes, there are tough moments—like those grueling hours my husband worked during his active duty, often stretching from early morning to late evening with little time off. And yes, deployments can feel like a lifetime. However, the positives far outweigh the negatives for our family. Here’s why I absolutely love being a military wife.
1. Adventurous Relocations
You read that correctly! My husband and I have embraced the thrill of moving. Over the past decade, we’ve called places like Texas, Virginia, Germany, New Orleans, and Washington D.C. home. While relocating can be stressful, it also brings the excitement of new friendships, adventures, and experiences. Without the military’s frequent moves, our lives wouldn’t be nearly as vibrant.
2. Comprehensive Healthcare
While the Tricare system has its quirks, it offers a wealth of benefits. From clinic visits with no copays to free prescriptions and hospital stays that don’t break the bank, we have been fortunate. From dealing with allergies to welcoming our children into the world—even during a birth overseas—knowing we have solid healthcare coverage is invaluable.
3. Job Security
For years, my husband and I contemplated whether he would serve a full 20 years or transition into civilian life. Each time an opportunity arose for him to leave, we hesitated. The civilian job market is unpredictable, while military life offers stability along with healthcare, housing benefits, and retirement options that would be hard to replicate elsewhere.
4. Valuable Military Discounts
You might think military discounts are a small perk, but they can make a big difference! Many retailers, restaurants, and attractions offer military discounts, allowing us to enjoy experiences that might otherwise be out of reach. It’s a part of our lifestyle that civilian families might overlook, but it significantly enhances our quality of life.
5. Lifelong Friendships
One of the most rewarding aspects of moving is the incredible network of friends I’ve built. The military community has introduced me to some of my closest friends, and even a few celebrities along the way (let’s just say I have a funny Gary Sinise story to share someday). No matter where we go, I can always count on having friends nearby, making the journey all the more enjoyable.
Not everyone is suited for the military lifestyle, but for my family, it’s a perfect fit. We are here for the long haul, embracing every moment it brings.
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Summary
Being a military spouse comes with its unique challenges, but the benefits—such as exciting relocations, comprehensive healthcare, job stability, valuable discounts, and a network of friends—make it a truly rewarding experience.