Every day presents its own set of challenges, yet today, I will embrace the joy in my life. Even when I’m rushing to get ready for work, herding kids out the door, packing lunches, signing permission slips, and wiping runny noses, I’ll find a moment to chuckle. Just when I think I’ve got everything under control, I’ll watch the bus drive away with my son on board, my hand still clutching his forgotten soccer bag. I’ll try to see the humor in it all.
Even when faced with a flat tire and a frozen water pipe while my partner is away for work, I will dive into the chaos. I’ll read through the car manual and ignite the blowtorch. As I jump on the lug nuts or shiver in the cold while trying to thaw out a pipe, I’ll remind myself that I’m a total rock star right now.
When the dishes seem to multiply like little gremlins, and I find myself cursing the inventor of Play-Doh—clearly someone who never had to sweep a floor—I will roll up my sleeves and tackle the mess again. Today, I’ll focus on the satisfaction of cleaning and tidying up.
Even when my son returns home feeling down because no one played with him at recess, or my daughter accuses me of being unkind for not giving her juice, or my partner and I have a spat over the spaghetti, I’ll remember that these are the small moments that make us perfectly imperfect.
As I worry about my parents’ health, the resilience of my children as they step into the world, and my own visibility as a mother navigating this journey, I’ll take a breath and remind myself of the goodness that exists all around us.
Even while I compare myself to others—something we women are known for—when that nagging voice in my head insists, “You should really work on those abs,” I’ll quiet it down and focus instead on watching my child play soccer.
In those moments when everything feels overwhelming—too loud and chaotic—I might find myself on the verge of yelling for peace and quiet. Instead, I’ll pause and choose to appreciate the laughter and energy of my children, recognizing that their wildness is part of their learning process. Amidst the madness, I’ll turn around and prepare dinner.
When exhaustion hits and the night monsters loom, I’ll comfort my little one, brushing her hair back and tucking her in. Even at 3 AM, I’ll dance a silly monster-in-a-tutu dance to lift her spirits and make her giggle.
Even when I feel lost and uncertain, I’ll remember that I’m not alone in this journey—parenting isn’t a competition.
At the end of a particularly long day, when I just want to throw caution to the wind, maybe we’ll have popcorn and ice cream for dinner while snuggling on the couch for a late-night movie. Today, I’ll choose to revel in the moments that make life beautiful.
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In summary, today is about finding joy in the chaos of life, celebrating the little victories, and embracing the imperfections that make us all human.