There’s an old adage that says, “If Mom isn’t happy, no one is happy.” Although it might just be a saying you’d find on a decorative plaque, it holds truth: moms are often the core of the household, and our emotional state can set the tone for everyone around us. When we wake up feeling good—perhaps because it’s payday or we’re having a great hair day—it’s amazing how much more we accomplish. The house looks tidier, we’re less likely to lose our patience, and the odds of a homemade dinner increase significantly. On the flip side, when things go awry, it’s easy to fall into a “whatever” mindset, which can impact the whole family. Moms play an essential role in maintaining harmony at home, so what can keep us smiling? Here are six tips:
- Use the Magic Phrase. Three little words can change the game: “I’ll make dinner.” Variations like “Let’s order pizza” or “Let’s have cereal” are equally effective. Some days, when we feel overwhelmed, the last thing we want to do is plan a meal—especially when we anticipate complaints about our nutritious efforts.
- Clean Up After Yourself. We love a tidy home, but we certainly don’t enjoy cleaning it. Here’s a thought: you’re not the only one who can help maintain order. Please, wipe the seat if you miss, throw away wrappers and juice boxes instead of hiding them in nooks and crannies, and put your dishes in the dishwasher. If you’re feeling particularly generous, fold some laundry! A little help goes a long way.
- Respect the Closed Door. When Mom has the door shut, it’s not an invitation for questions or interruptions—just keep the door closed. Whether we’re in the bathroom or need a moment to ourselves, respect that boundary. We don’t want to be disturbed, no matter what we’re doing.
- Avoid Surprise Guests. There’s nothing more disruptive than unannounced visitors. It’s always best to ask before inviting someone over. We’d appreciate the heads-up so we can make ourselves presentable and tackle any last-minute chores. While you might be ready for guests at a moment’s notice, we might not be.
- Be the Best Version of Yourself (in Public). We take pride in our families, and nothing feels better than when our efforts are recognized. Show off your manners and etiquette when out and about; it makes us feel like we’re doing something right. And to our partners: teamwork is key. Good behavior is more likely when both parents are engaged, rather than glued to their phones.
- Show a Little Gratitude. Motherhood can feel like a thankless job. We don’t expect constant praise, but a little appreciation goes a long way. Think about all we do: cooking, cleaning, driving, nurturing, and teaching. A simple “thank you” for all the small things we do, like laundry or homework help, can mean the world. Add in a hug, and we’ll be putty in your hands. The more we feel valued, the more motivated we are to keep going.
In summary, keeping a happy mom means a happier home. Small gestures of kindness, respect for boundaries, and gratitude can make a world of difference. For more insights on family planning and home insemination, check out resources like this one or this excellent guide. And if you’re interested in at-home insemination, this kit is a great option to consider.