As we welcome a new year, I’ve decided to ditch the typical resolutions that often fall by the wayside within days—like cutting back on sweets or limiting screen time. Instead, I’m focusing on a few realistic goals that I can genuinely stick to.
Lowering My Expectations
First and foremost, I’m committing to lower my expectations of myself. Last year was filled with excitement, but it also brought its fair share of challenges. Rather than savoring my successes, I found myself constantly measuring my achievements against others, leading to feelings of inadequacy. This year, my goal is to ease up. I don’t need to write the most popular book, embark on a massive tour, or gather the most reviews. My priority? To relax, appreciate the journey, and just enjoy the moment—both in my writing and in life.
The Power of Saying “No”
Another resolution I’m embracing is the skill of saying “no.” No, I can’t shift my plans to volunteer at school last minute. No, I don’t have the bandwidth to lead that committee I care about. No, I won’t find a babysitter just to accommodate someone else’s schedule. When something doesn’t suit me, I resolve to communicate that clearly, without excessive apologies or feeling guilty. Just a firm “no.”
It’s all about being kinder to myself and recognizing my limits. This should be manageable. Oh, and I should definitely drink more water. After all, a little room for imperfection is necessary!
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Summary
This year, I’ve decided to make achievable resolutions that focus on self-acceptance and setting boundaries. By aiming lower and learning to say “no,” I can prioritize my well-being while enjoying the journey of parenting.