After welcoming my daughter into the world, I was both excited and anxious to return to work just three months later. The six months that followed brought a whirlwind of emotions—happiness, fulfillment, and a constant pondering of career changes or even quitting my job altogether. Then, out of the blue, an opportunity arose at a company that felt like a perfect fit. I was thrilled yet terrified at the thought of having to face an interview.
In preparation, I dived deep into research about the company, scouring their website and reading up on everything I could find. I prioritized my well-being—getting enough sleep, eating right, and exercising. I even treated myself to a fresh haircut and highlights—money was no object, at least for that week! I meticulously planned my outfit, seeking advice from my most stylish friends to ensure I looked my best.
But the morning of the interview brought unexpected chaos. Here are some lessons I learned that I hope will help other new moms:
- Prioritize Alone Time: Make arrangements for your baby to be cared for in their preferred childcare before the interview. I foolishly thought I could manage getting ready while also caring for my little one. This resulted in a chaotic morning where my daughter attempted to dive off the bed, leading to a near disaster! Having that uninterrupted time is essential for your sanity and preparation.
- Don’t Procrastinate on Prep: I mistakenly thought I could save applying makeup and reviewing notes until just before I left. This led to a makeup mishap in a Starbucks bathroom where my concealer exploded. Instead of calmly preparing, I found myself frantically trying to fix my appearance and review my notes just minutes before the interview.
- Breastfeeding Moms, Take Note: If you’re pumping, do it before you leave home, and ensure all your equipment is ready to go. I learned this the hard way, having to pump over the kitchen sink after dropping off my daughter, all while wearing my meticulously chosen outfit. It was a wake-up call that motherhood has its challenges.
- Plan Your Route in Advance: Don’t solely rely on GPS. It’s bound to fail you at a critical moment, leaving you lost and stressed. I learned this lesson the hard way, driving in circles while trying to get my GPS to work.
- Take Deep Breaths: It’s easy to feel like this interview is your only chance, but remember there will be more opportunities. You are capable and valuable, not just defined by your role as a mother but as an individual. Embrace your strength and let your unique self shine through.
In the spirit of encouragement, remember to take a moment, shake off the stress, and embrace who you are. You’ve got this—one interview at a time, one breath at a time.
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Summary
Returning to work after having a baby can be overwhelming, especially when preparing for an interview. Prioritizing your time, planning ahead, and maintaining your well-being are key to success. Remember, each experience is a stepping stone to realizing your potential and embracing your identity beyond motherhood.