Since seventh grade, I’ve been highlighting my hair, and honestly, I can’t even recall what my natural color is anymore. If you ever wander down the hair dye aisle at your local drugstore, you might find shades like “Blahhh” or “Meh” — that would probably sum up my original hue.
Thanks to my dull hair, I’ve spent quite a bit over the years to maintain my bright blonde locks, avoiding any resemblance to someone who’s just let their roots grow wild. This week, as a young stylist was adding highlights, she began sharing tales of her “bad boy” boyfriend and all the drama that came with him. I listened intently, nodding at the right moments, and gasping in surprise just when she needed it.
After she wrapped up her saga, I felt it was time to share some wisdom from my own experiences. I told her, “Sweetheart, you might date the bad boy, but you marry the good guy.”
Her blank stare told me all I needed to know: she had no clue who I was talking about. Dylan McKay and Brandon Walsh from the iconic 90210? A classic! I couldn’t help but feel a bit old, and I pitied the young woman who missed out on the life lessons that came from watching that show during her formative years.
It made me think of my own kids, Daisy and Max, and how many conversations I’ll have with them in the future. Should I just lock them in a room and make them binge-watch all ten seasons of my favorite show? I’m convinced that all the tough topics will be covered in those episodes. Here are some significant lessons I want to share with them:
- Avoid Prom Fiascos: Getting intoxicated at prom and passing out in front of your principal is definitely not the way to make memories. Trust me, no one is going to chant your name for that.
- Fashion and Friendship: Never wear the same dress to a dance as your best friend. And steer clear of dating the rebellious girl who has a thing for drugs or the troubled guy with family issues. Seriously, didn’t Brenda’s pregnancy scare teach us anything?
- Wealth Isn’t Everything: Just because your friends have fancy houses, designer clothes, or a mom who’s often at rehab, it doesn’t mean their lives are better. They might actually envy you for having a sarcastic mom who can whip up a killer pepperoni roll!
- Stay Away from Bad Choices: Whether it’s drugs, cheating, or diet pills, it’s all a slippery slope. Cheating is bad. Just…don’t do it.
- Recognize Healthy Relationships: If a guy ever puts his hands on you, he doesn’t love you. I may not condone violence, but let’s just say I’d have a few choice words for anyone who hurt my Max.
- Choose Yourself: In moments of indecision, always pick what’s best for you. Kelly Taylor got that one right when she declared, “I choose me!”
There you have it—six essential lessons that I hope will help my children navigate their way to adulthood. Honestly, parenting seems like a piece of cake!
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Summary
In conclusion, the nostalgic lessons from Beverly Hills, 90210 can offer valuable insights for today’s youth. From understanding the complexities of relationships to recognizing the importance of self-worth, these lessons remain timeless. By reflecting on these themes, parents can help guide their children through the challenges of growing up.