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Daily Baths
Unless my children have turned into mud monsters, daily baths are unnecessary. In summer, I rinse off the sand and sweat, but in winter, too many baths just lead to dry, irritated skin. A couple of baths a week will suffice, plus it saves me from the chaotic wrestling match that ensues when trying to wash a tantruming toddler and preschooler. -
Over-the-Top Bedtime Rituals
Everyone told me how crucial bedtime routines are, but they quickly morphed into an hour-long saga. With a 4-year-old, our routine now includes everything from singing a lullaby to elaborate games like “crashies” where I’m always the one who gets hurt. To reclaim my evenings, I’m simplifying it to just tooth-brushing and quick prayers, recited as I inch toward the snack cabinet. -
Worrying About Organic Produce
For years, I stood in the produce aisle, hesitating between spending $2 on an organic apple or grabbing a regular one for 50 cents. It’s about time I let that anxiety go. As long as they’re eating fruits and veggies, that’s a win in my book, and I can’t justify blowing our budget on overpriced apples. -
Forcing Kids to Eat Veggies
I used to insist my firstborn eat a specific number of bites before dessert, which turned into endless bargaining. Now, we follow Ellyn Satter’s division of responsibility, which has made mealtime way less stressful. Sure, my son still comments that dinner “looks like an old head,” but at least we’re not arguing over whether touching broccoli with his tongue counts as a bite. -
Being Unwaveringly Patient
I strive to maintain my calm, but sometimes chaos reigns—one child is blasting the music machine, the phone is ringing, and I’m trying to save burnt oatmeal. Losing my cool occasionally isn’t the end of the world; it teaches my kids that patience has its limits. It’s a valuable lesson for them in recognizing when someone is about to hit their breaking point. -
Maintaining a Spotless Home
A friend once remarked that motherhood often feels like becoming a maid, and I totally agree. I clean the kitchen multiple times a day, yet I’ve decided to ease up. I now encourage my kids to toss their clothes in the hamper and help with chores. It may take longer than doing it myself, but I want them to learn that small daily contributions are better than waiting for a big cleanup day. -
Spending Every Weekend with the Kids
One thing I truly miss from my pre-parenting days is enjoying time to myself at home. So, we’re implementing a new half-day-off policy where one parent gets a few hours each week for personal time—out of the house with the kids. I plan to tackle small tasks like sorting my hair ties or organizing papers. It’s going to feel amazing!
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In summary, motherhood is about finding balance and letting go of unrealistic expectations. By releasing the pressure to be a perfect mom, I’m creating a more enjoyable environment for both myself and my kids.