My dearest little one, the moment we’ve been waiting for is nearly upon us.
For 39 weeks, you have been a part of me, and it has been a joy nurturing myself with the knowledge that it benefits you too. I hope you’ve enjoyed the cheese sticks and bananas, the long strolls, and our cozy nights together. Feeling you move, from gentle flutters to robust kicks, has been nothing short of magical. Each sensation fills me with awe and pride; I can already tell you are a spirited and strong daughter! Soon, you will take your first steps into the world as your own unique self.
I will miss the comfort of knowing you are safe within me, but I am so eager to finally meet you. From that moment on, you will begin to carve out your own identity, becoming more and more you with every breath and blink. You will learn to shape your own happiness, destiny, and achievements. I will be your support, doing my utmost to provide a solid foundation and to be the best role model I can be, but ultimately, the responsibility for your happiness lies with you. I want you to understand deeply: you possess the power to create your own joy in a way that nothing or no one can take away. Once you’re out in the world, I can only guide you so much.
I don’t share this to suggest I won’t strive to be the best mother possible; I will and I promise. I convey this to you because I wish I had grasped my own strength earlier in life—the ability to steer my course amidst whatever challenges arise. Now that I have learned this lesson, I want to demonstrate a life lived with grace, one that is centered and fulfilling. This is the grace I hope to instill in you, the resilience I want you to cultivate, and the happiness I wish for you to recognize as being entirely within your control.
Life will have its share of hardships, often striking even the best of us. You will face difficulties too, but that’s okay. What matters is how you choose to respond to those challenges, big or small. There will always be goodness that arises in the wake of adversity—whether it’s the help of caregivers, the love from friends and family, or the kindness of a stranger. You will discover strengths within yourself that you can rely on, no matter what life throws your way.
But let’s not dwell on negativity. Life tends to reflect what you focus on. So let’s choose to seek out love, light, beauty, and hope. I can’t wait to hold you in my arms and to see your father embrace you too. He’s a wonderful man, and you’ll feel that warmth from him right from the start. Together, we will watch you grow, explore, and thrive.
Let’s share a vision filled with gratitude, compassion, and tranquility. Let’s make room for hearty laughter and those blissful little smiles. We’ll treasure moments like this one, bursting with anticipation and peace, with the snow safely outside and your movements in my belly. Together, we’ll find ways to make the world better, to use our talents and passions to bring joy to those around us.
I promise to be the best example for you—to love myself (almost) as fiercely as I love you, so you can learn to do the same. I will support you in being the person you are destined to become. Yet, in a way I can’t fully comprehend yet, I know you’ll always be a part of me, and I’m thankful for all the lessons you’ll teach me.
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To summarize, my sweet girl, as you prepare to join us, remember that you hold the power to shape your own happiness. Life will be a beautiful journey, filled with laughter, love, and moments to cherish. I can’t wait to embark on this adventure together.