Are you gearing up to head back to work after your maternity leave? Here are some helpful suggestions to ease your transition and embrace this new chapter.
- Keep Baby Photos to Yourself: While it’s tempting to share adorable pictures of your little one with every colleague, it might be wise to hold back. You may find that the question “How’s the baby?” leads to some nostalgic reflections on your pre-baby life. Remember the days of carefree happy hours and stylish outfits? Avoid becoming that person who can’t stop talking about their child.
- Don’t Worry About Pumping: Feeling anxious about pumping at work? It’s totally understandable. Just remember, you’re not alone in this—many have been there! With a little preparation, you’ll find your rhythm, even if it involves some awkward moments in what’s supposed to be a “private” room without a lock.
- Caffeine Isn’t the Enemy: If you’re breastfeeding, you don’t necessarily have to cut out coffee. As a non-doctor blogger, I suggest giving it a shot and seeing how it affects you before saying goodbye to that beloved cup of joe. Who knows, your baby might even be the reason for all those “alert” comments from strangers.
- Vet Your Sitters: When hiring someone to care for your child, checking references is crucial. If a reference casually mentions, “Would it kill her to load the dishwasher?” you might want to rethink your choice. Look for someone who will not only care for your little one but also keep your home in order.
- Review Diaper Changing Techniques: Even if your sitter has impressive experience, take a moment to show her how you like things done. Take the time for a quick diaper change demonstration to avoid any mishaps that might leave you puzzled when you find your child damp.
- Give a Heads Up Before Coming Home: A quick 30-minute heads-up before you arrive can work wonders. It allows your sitter to tidy up and ensure everything is in order. Walking into a clean home after a long day at work can be incredibly uplifting.
- Make Time for Lunch: Don’t skip your lunch break! It’s a vital part of your day, offering a chance to unwind and socialize with coworkers. Whether it’s enjoying a cafeteria treat or sharing gossip, take that 30 minutes to recharge.
- Prepare the Night Before: Mornings can be hectic, especially when you want to sneak in one last kiss for your baby. Lay out your outfit, prep your coffee, and plan ahead to make your mornings smoother. Why hasn’t someone invented a coffee machine for Babies ‘R Us yet?
- Depart Before Your Partner If You Can: If your schedules allow, consider leaving for work before your partner. It can save you from a lengthy handoff while ensuring your sitter is all set. You can trust her to manage the day while you focus on your work.
- Remember, This Phase Will Pass: It’s tough to see it through the exhaustion of sleepless nights, but this challenging time is temporary. When you’re feeling overwhelmed, a glass of wine after work can help you unwind and remind you that it will get better.
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In summary, returning to work after maternity leave is a significant transition filled with challenges and triumphs. With the right preparation and mindset, you can navigate this new phase of life while ensuring your little one is well cared for.