Sometimes, I have to admit, my kids don’t always take precedence. There are moments when I’m preparing dinner, and I can’t just pause everything to help my son remove a shoe he decided to put on for fun. Other times, while I’m folding laundry, I ask my daughter to be patient for a few minutes before I can join her for a game of Toddler Tag. Even when I’m on a phone call, I may choose to finish my conversation before getting them a snack.
My children are undeniably two of the most cherished people in my life. They’re witty, playful, and full of life—traits that remind me of myself. Although they are still young, I strive to teach them essential values like manners, kindness, forgiveness, and yes, patience.
The Importance of Waiting
Life is full of waiting. Whether it’s standing at a bus stop, waiting for food at a diner, or even anticipating the next episode of a favorite show while indulging in a secret midnight snack, waiting is a part of our existence. I believe it’s important to instill this understanding in my children early on.
Of course, there are times when my attention is urgently needed—like when a loud crash is followed by tears, or when a sibling quarrel escalates. I also make it a point to set aside chores to engage with them in the moment, whether it’s helping with a shoe or putting aside laundry to dance along to their favorite songs.
Yet, I don’t do this every time. I want my kids to understand that they are not the center of the universe. They are special and significant, but part of my duty as a mother is to prepare them to be respectful, capable, and successful individuals in society. Learning to wait is a crucial lesson; they must cultivate patience and learn to entertain themselves while they wait for what they desire.
My kids don’t always come first, and I hope that one day they’ll appreciate this perspective. If not, well, I hope I can budget for their therapy!
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In summary, while my children are incredibly important to me, they don’t always take precedence. Teaching them the value of patience and the reality of waiting is a vital part of their upbringing. This approach will help them grow into well-rounded individuals who understand that life doesn’t always revolve around their immediate wants.