I’m a single gay dad who embarked on the incredible journey of parenthood with a close female friend. Together, we are dedicated co-parents who developed a thoughtful, child-centered approach to share the joys and responsibilities of raising our kids. What started as a leap of faith over a decade ago has blossomed into the most rewarding experience of my life.
Embracing Community in Provincetown
As a single gay father living in Cambridge, Massachusetts, with two young daughters, I feel fortunate to be part of a vibrant and progressive urban community. We eagerly anticipate our summer trips to Provincetown, where I envisioned my children enjoying the warm New England summers by the sea—just like I did—while embracing their unique identities.
When my dream of parenthood became a reality, I committed myself to fostering an environment of inclusion and acceptance, both at home and during our seaside summers. One of our cherished traditions is participating in Family Week in Provincetown, where we connect with both new and familiar families. Each year, I witness more families joining us from places where acceptance is scarce, marginalized, or even dangerous.
Family Week Revelations
This past summer, we reunited with a family we met years ago and participated in the Family Week parade for the very first time. As I walked through the familiar streets I had traversed while pushing a stroller a decade earlier, I felt a profound sense of safety and belonging, shared by many families who were experiencing this sense of security for perhaps the first time.
Overwhelmed with gratitude for my family and friends, I realized the fundamental rights we often take for granted are increasingly under threat in our changing society. This moment sparked a renewed commitment within me to engage in daily activism and combat the rising tide of hate. I feel proud to teach my children that every family—regardless of their makeup—can make a difference, and that love truly prevails.
Mark Thompson is the Director of Communications at a non-profit organization dedicated to providing affordable housing and adult health services for seniors and individuals with disabilities. He previously served as Chief of Staff to the first openly gay mayor in the U.S., an experience that has shaped his advocacy for the LGBTQ+ community. Mark is a published writer and artist, and above all, a devoted father to his two daughters.
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In summary, my journey as a single gay dad has been filled with love, challenges, and a commitment to advocacy. As we navigate this path together, I’m reminded that our families can create a lasting impact, proving that love always triumphs.