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My Mother and the Timeless Lessons She Gave Me
The teachings of my mother are woven into the fabric of my life, rich with secrets, hushed tones, softly lit corners, and the gentle grasp of an elbow.
She showed me that gingerbread is at its finest when blended with blackstrap molasses, especially the day after Thanksgiving, when the flavors have a chance to meld beautifully.
Laundry was another lesson she imparted, a relentless task that could be tackled in countless ways: draping it over a rope, a branch, a hanger, or even the back of an Adirondack chair. I learned that clothes could be wrung out in the sink and hung on the shower curtain rod, or pressed through hand-cranked rollers beneath birch trees while we washed our summer outfits in the cool lake water.
Of course, laundry could also be dried in a shiny Kenmore dryer, infused with a golden fragrance that evoked memories of freshly scented t-shirts. I can still picture her standing by the washer, her fingers gripping the white enamel edge, fighting back tears that were tied to the heart-wrenching loss of her sister’s newborn. It was a tragedy I had never heard of before—crib death.
My mother taught me how to turn messy baskets filled with socks, underwear, and tank tops into neat, organized piles. She emphasized the importance of putting them away promptly, as a towering stack of blue jeans could easily topple and ruin her hard work—a “just a darn shame,” she would exclaim.
Through her, I learned about the energy we expend in life and how, at the end, our daughters may resemble us, laugh like us, and even master the art of making turkey gravy just like we do. They might set the table with napkins and candles in the same way, yet remain unaware of the depths of our souls. They would linger at doorways, peering into dimly lit rooms where unspoken emotions are carefully folded and tucked away in the drawers of our hearts.
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In summary, my mother’s lessons are timeless and continue to shape who I am. From practical skills to emotional wisdom, her teachings remain with me, providing guidance and comfort as I navigate my own journey.