58 Insights I Hope My Sons Embrace

  1. Cherish good friends; being a good friend is essential.
  2. Women have a sharper sense of smell—just a little reminder!
  3. Hiding your mistakes reveals poor character. True men admit their faults, apologize, and seek to mend what’s broken.
  4. No selfies of your privates! They might just end up on your grandmother’s social media, and trust me, you don’t want that.
  5. Your identity isn’t defined by your diet, car, or home. You are you. If things aren’t working, changing those things won’t help.
  6. Cleanliness is attractive. Thoughtfulness is attractive. Being excessively drunk? Not so much.
  7. Video games aren’t responsible for violence, but they won’t improve your role as a son, student, or friend. Play them in moderation.
  8. Sleep won’t fix everything, but a lack of it will cause new problems.
  9. Set NYTimes.com as your homepage—it’ll make you smarter.
  10. Junk food is for teens; by 20, your body will crave real nutrition. Give it what it needs.
  11. Engaging in sports keeps you happy and healthy. Keep them in your life.
  12. Choosing a partner is one of life’s most critical decisions. Balance your heart and mind in that choice.
  13. If you question whether a trendy outfit suits you, it probably doesn’t.
  14. Skimping on a haircut will lead to instant regret.
  15. Your platonic female friends—those who care for you without romantic interest—are invaluable. Treat them well.
  16. Never let your siblings down; they are irreplaceable and will be your longest friendships.
  17. When contemplating actions that might displease your parents, pause and reflect on their potential questions. Trust your own judgment afterward.
  18. Your 20s are the perfect time to test your risk tolerance—don’t miss that chance.
  19. Invest a little more in quality shampoo and deodorant; it’s worth it.
  20. Keep two well-pressed white shirts on hand; you never know when you’ll need them for an interview or meeting the in-laws.
  21. Stock up on underwear; it’ll dictate your laundry routine.
  22. If you sleep with someone, reach out the next morning, even if just with an emoji. If you think of ignoring her, picture my face.
  23. Thoughtful gifts for special occasions mean a lot. If she’s disappointed by the price tag, reconsider the relationship.
  24. Strive to be the kind of leader, educator, partner, and friend you admire or wish you had.
  25. Follow through on your commitments, whether it’s finishing a tube of toothpaste or promises to others and yourself.
  26. Your integrity is defined by your word. Anyone who suggests otherwise is wrong.
  27. Technology won’t bring happiness; the connections it fosters will. Don’t confuse the two.
  28. If someone tries to change you, run—unless it’s about hygiene, fitness, or diet; then, listen up.
  29. Your manners reflect on you and your family. Don’t embarrass us.
  30. Life will bring disappointments—from others and yourself. That’s why you have parents to help navigate them.
  31. Men’s piercings will fade from fashion, if they haven’t already.
  32. Aspirin, water, and black coffee can solve many issues—either separately or together.
  33. When shopping for clothes with a woman, avoid blanket compliments. Be specific about what looks good; it builds credibility.
  34. If your friends are unkind, it won’t be long before you follow suit. Choose wisely.
  35. Treat your parents well; your next ski trip might depend on it.
  36. Respond promptly to your mother’s texts if you want her to keep covering your phone bill.
  37. Quality always trumps quantity when it comes to shoes and suits.
  38. Toothbrushes have a lifespan—replace them when needed.
  39. Learn to swing a golf club, shoot pool, and cast a fishing rod; these skills will serve you well.
  40. Never use your size to intimidate others, unless it’s in sports. If you do, I’ll send you back to your cave.
  41. Drugs will cloud your judgment, waste your resources, and connect you with people you’d rather avoid. Clear?
  42. Always smile in photos and show your best side; you never know where that picture might end up.
  43. If you get a rash, cut, or burn, snap a photo and text it to your mom. She’s great at diagnosing, even digitally.
  44. When you return home for a meal and laundry, bring a positive attitude. These are privileges, not rights.
  45. Calling your parents just to chat is always a good move.
  46. If you only share the ups and hide the downs, no one will truly know you.
  47. Never assume anything about someone else’s wealth, health, or happiness; we often misjudge.
  48. Put the toilet seat down—just do it without argument.
  49. Your partner can be your best friend, but living together isn’t the same as hanging out with other friends. Remember that.
  50. The Internet is permanent; remind yourself of this every time you type.
  51. Unsure if you’re ready for kids? Start with a dog.
  52. No one is fully prepared for parenthood; it’s always a leap of faith.
  53. It’s wise to have children near at least one grandparent; emergencies happen.
  54. Always bring a small thank-you gift when invited to someone’s home; it’s appreciated.
  55. You’ll soon be in a position to support those younger than you—do so generously.
  56. Acknowledge your roots and appreciate the teachers and institutions that shaped you.
  57. Check your mail regularly! Some letters are important, and ignoring them only leads to stress.
  58. Be that person others seek out for support in tough times; those in pain look for kind hearts.

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Summary:

This article offers 58 invaluable pieces of advice aimed at guiding young men through life’s challenges. From the significance of friendship to the importance of self-awareness and integrity, the insights encourage thoughtful living. The writer emphasizes the value of family connections, personal growth, and the responsibilities that come with adulthood.