Updated: Aug. 20, 2015
Originally Published: July 25, 2014
There’s something special about a night out with the girls. Whether it’s reminiscing over popcorn at a slumber party or watching our mothers shine at bingo night, these gatherings have always held a cherished place in our hearts. Recently, I’ve realized that while my enthusiasm for ladies’ night remains, the way I prepare for these precious outings has evolved significantly since welcoming my two little ones.
Getting Ready: Pre-Children
- Crank up my favorite playlist to set the mood.
- Pour a generous glass of wine to sip on as I prep.
- Explore my wardrobe, contemplating my outfit options.
- Enjoy a tranquil shower, taking the time to exfoliate and pamper myself.
- Moisturize my legs, apply make-up, and style my hair with care.
- Refill my wine glass and turn the music up a notch.
- Touch base with my friends about their plans and outfits.
- Return to my closet to select the ideal ensemble, shoes, and accessories.
- If I haven’t treated myself to a mani/pedi, I’ll paint my nails.
- Finish my wine while grooving to my playlist and waiting for the polish to dry.
- Call a taxi while I catch up on emails.
- Grab my keys and step out, feeling fabulous.
Ah, the luxury of that pre-girls’ night routine! Who wouldn’t want to stay in after such a delightful evening at home?
Getting Ready: Post-Children
- Search for the remote to snag a few quiet moments while I prepare.
- Serve the kids a quick snack.
- Frantically hunt for an outfit that fits and isn’t maternity wear.
- Forget about showering—dry shampoo and deodorant will have to do!
- Apply some mascara and cover those pesky blemishes.
- Start dinner while anxiously wondering when my partner will return home.
- Call to nudge my partner to hurry home.
- Feed the kids and tag-team with my partner as they walk in the door—I’m officially off duty!
- Rush to paint my nails, hoping no one notices the mess.
- Realize I’m still on duty because I’m still in the house. Time to handle pajamas, teeth brushing, and bottles.
- Get hugs goodbye, which results in a little snot on my skirt and smudged polish.
- Make a break for the door, glancing back to blow a kiss to those little faces pressed against the window.
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In summary, whether it’s the indulgent preparation of our pre-kids days or the frantic, yet joyful, hustle of now, a girls’ night out remains a cherished escape for many of us.