As the new school year approaches, it feels a lot like January with fresh goals and intentions focused on education. Like many parents, I find myself making the same promises each year: we’ll arrive on time, I won’t misplace permission slips, and I’ll prep lunches the night before. This fall, though, I’m ready to embrace some new resolutions, drawing on the wisdom that comes with experience.
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I will embrace the power of NO.
After over a decade of having kids in school, I’m no longer that enthusiastic kindergarten parent eager to volunteer for every committee or event. I’ve joined the ranks of seasoned parents who have learned to prioritize their own well-being over the pressure to be involved. We’ve reached a point where we firmly believe that it’s okay to say “No.” To the younger parents out there, I assure you, it’s liberating. Let the younger crowd handle the class parties while we take time for ourselves—thank you very much! -
I will encourage my kids to own their morning routine.
Yes, I know this might sound far-fetched, but it’s time to give it a shot. I recognize that if left to their own devices, my kids might not get up until the late morning, but I’m determined to step back and let them figure it out. I’ll resist the urge to micromanage the morning chaos and trust that they can rise, eat, and prepare for school on their own. Who knows? It might just work—at least until the holidays! -
I will support my high school kids in pursuing their own dreams.
When my eldest entered high school, I had a vision of the perfect academic path for him, but I failed to consider his own aspirations. I’ve learned that it’s essential to let him explore what truly excites him, even if it doesn’t align with my initial expectations. Whether he wants to teach or delve into literature, I’m realizing that his choices are his own to make. After all, in a couple of years, he’ll be the one meeting with college advisors, not me. -
I will step back from school projects.
How many times have we seen a project and instantly recognized the parent’s handiwork? I’m officially done with the late-night crafting sessions that leave me exhausted. With four kids, I simply don’t have the time or energy to swoop in and save the day. If they need to learn a lesson about deadlines or the value of hard work, it’s better for them to experience that now rather than later when the stakes are higher. -
I will savor my youngest child’s school years.
As a seasoned parent, I often find myself feeling “over it,” but I don’t want my youngest to feel that way. He deserves the same excitement I showered on his older siblings. I plan to fully embrace his elementary milestones, celebrating each one as if it were my first. Whether it’s dressing up for themed days or attending school events, I will be there with enthusiasm, documenting each moment with joy.
In summary, these resolutions are about stepping back, allowing my children to grow, and embracing the school journey with renewed excitement. For additional insights and support on parenting and home insemination, you can check out our blog post on home insemination. Remember, resources like March of Dimes offer excellent guidance on pregnancy, and for those considering taking the plunge, Make A Mom provides authority on at-home insemination kits.