Certain subjects are unlikely to captivate anyone’s attention—ever. Here are some of those topics to steer clear of:
- Your daily carb intake.
- The dream you had last night.
- Any dream at all (unless it involves the person you’re chatting with; then it’s an absolute hit).
- Diets that fail to work for you.
- Your current obsession with someone special.
- The organic food blog you plan to create based on your everyday experiences—like your dreams, your crush, and the time you overdid it on carbs with that kale and cucumber salad.
- How hilarious your child is for repeating every cliché line known to parents, such as “You’re the best mama ever!” or “I love you to the moon and back.”
- The three shirts you bought online that didn’t fit quite right, and now you’re contemplating returning one while mulling over sizes and colors.
- Breast pumping is not an engaging conversation starter.
- Nipple confusion, or your indecision about hiring a lactation consultant, also fall flat.
- Your baby’s fontanelle is a snooze—however, cradle cap? Now that’s a conversation starter!
- Anything related to your “spiritual journey,” your “practice of Loving-kindness,” or your progress in “The Artist’s Way,” including the dreaded mention of your “mentor.”
- Your memorable retreat at Kripalu.
- Words and phrases that make you instantly annoying at gatherings include: “Listicle,” “It is what it is,” and “At the end of the day…”
On the contrary, sometimes we underestimate our own interestingness. We may feel mundane, sharing trivialities instead of the engaging experiences that invite future invitations. Here are some conversation starters that are sure to make an impact:
- Your eventful weekend spent in jail.
- Unusual baby name ideas like Endless Spiral or Tragedy.
- Play a game called The Annoying Party (Trademark Pending!) where you invite the most irritating people you can think of.
- Secret home remedies for common ailments.
- Any ailments you’re currently dealing with.
- An insightful article you read online about yourself.
- Interesting takes on holistic podiatry.
- Unexpectedly inappropriate phrases your child has uttered.
- The most hilarious typos you’ve encountered on dating profiles.
- Ingenious life hacks that make life easier.
- Best-kept secrets—like how to flag down off-duty cabs when you only need to go a short distance.
- Anything about the series Transparent.
- The line of kids’ clothing for adults that you wish existed.
- How to dye your clothes for a fresh wardrobe in under an hour.
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Summary
Engaging conversations can sometimes feel elusive, especially when we find ourselves discussing mundane topics. It’s essential to recognize what can captivate an audience, from personal anecdotes to unique ideas. Avoiding common pitfalls while embracing interesting subjects can open doors to deeper connections.