Parenting comes with its own set of responsibilities: laundry, cleaning, and yes, cooking. Like many parents, I strive to tackle these tasks with a sense of gratitude and joy, feeling lucky to nurture my family. I can tackle laundry and even share a firm lecture when necessary. However, there’s one parenthood duty I simply cannot embrace: cooking. I’ve given it my best shot, but I’ve come to accept that I just don’t enjoy it. Here are ten reasons why cooking can feel like an uphill battle.
- Daily Demands: Cooking is expected 3-5 times a day, seven days a week. Even the most delectable treat can feel like a burden when it’s on repeat that often.
- Grocery Store Struggles: Cooking necessitates food, which means a trip to the grocery store. Finding the time to shop is a logistical nightmare. Sure, I could go during school hours, but that requires a master plan to juggle work, laundry, and school volunteering. Going after school? That means dragging the kids along, which usually leads to a symphony of “Can we get that?” and “Why not?”
- Misleading Cooking: The term “cooking” is deceptive. It should include “planning” and “prepping.” No matter how straightforward the recipe appears, there are always countless steps, ingredients, and utensils involved. Just when I think I’m ready to cook, one of the kids will suddenly need help with homework or express their sudden disinterest in food.
- The Meal Mystery: Eating the meal I’ve prepared is like unraveling a mystery. Will everyone enjoy it? Will I have to persuade them to take a single bite? Or will the meal be drowned in cheese? It could also turn into a “3 Bite Night” where they declare they’re full after just a few bites.
- Endless Clean-Up: The aftermath of cooking is always daunting. No amount of satisfaction from a healthy dish can erase the mountain of dishes and mess waiting for me once everyone has finished eating. Honestly, the effort-to-satisfaction ratio feels like 1:eleventy billion.
- Leftover Dread: After all the effort spent on shopping, prepping, cooking, and cleaning, do I really want to see that meal again? Definitely not.
- Guessing Who’s Coming: Figuring out how many people will actually be at the table is a guessing game. Will my partner make it home in time? Did he eat out? It’s always a mystery!
- Eating with the Kids: While family dinners are important, I sometimes dread eating with the kids. The dining table turns into a stage for their goofy antics, fart jokes, and long-winded stories about video games that go way over my head. Can’t we just let them watch TV while we eat?
- Complicated Meals: Why can’t I just whip up one main dish? Why does there need to be a side or a veggie? The amount of pots, pans, and ingredients required for even the simplest meal is overwhelming, and trying to sneak veggies in never works. Kids seem to have a radar that detects even the slightest hint of green.
- The Snack Attack: Just when I think I’m done for the day, I hear those dreaded words: “I’m hungry. Can I have a snack?”
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Summary: Cooking for a family can be a daunting task filled with multiple challenges, from grocery shopping to the endless clean-up. It often feels overwhelming, but it’s a part of parenting that many must navigate.