Adjusting how women approach situations—like the way they request a raise or their posture—doesn’t tackle the real issue at hand: sexism. The true problem lies in the systemic biases that women face, not in their behaviors.
However, when it comes to grooming, the situation is different. Choosing to spend less time with hair tools and beauty products shouldn’t be viewed the same way as changing how one communicates in a professional setting. Time and money are interchangeable; that half hour dedicated to a skincare routine could be better spent elsewhere, and the $139 spent on beauty gadgets could fund something more enjoyable or beneficial. By skipping those painful hair removal treatments, you could reclaim both hours and dollars. My main argument centers around the possibility of women investing less energy in grooming and more in living life fully.
While it’s true, as noted by my colleague Sarah, that men also squander time and money on their own interests, like sports and cars, and still achieve promotions, this is a reflection of sexism, not a fair comparison. Grooming isn’t merely a frivolous hobby; it’s often a response to societal expectations that pressure women to maintain a certain appearance. There’s a clear double standard at play: what is deemed “appropriate for work” varies significantly between men and women, with the latter facing higher costs and greater time demands.
Sarah suggests that my article may imply women should simply “rise up and rebel” to create change. Yet, in the case of grooming, rebellion is not just warranted; it has historical significance in feminist movements. From the suffragettes who wore bloomers to flapper Irene Castle who chopped her hair, and from Helen Hulick’s refusal to wear a dress in court to Hillary Clinton’s iconic pantsuits, these acts of defiance have contributed to cultural shifts.
Moreover, it’s correct that not every woman adheres to an extensive grooming routine; many have streamlined their approach successfully. Yes, some find joy in the process of beautifying themselves (I’m no exception—there’s something delightful about a great lipstick!). It’s also true that men are increasingly investing time into their appearances, as marketers capitalize on everyone’s insecurities.
No one is suggesting we abandon grooming altogether; after all, we don’t want anyone to look like a character from The Muppets! However, we must acknowledge the significant divide between “masculine” and “feminine” expectations, which consumes an excessive amount of time and resources. We need to recognize when the natural human desire to express ourselves through appearance becomes an unhealthy norm that disproportionately benefits one gender.
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In conclusion, while grooming is an aspect of life many engage with, it’s essential to reflect on the societal pressures surrounding it and how they can be redefined to foster a more equitable environment for all.