As I observe the traits of my mother blossoming within me, it brings me joy to see the essence of such a vibrant and theatrical woman shaping my own identity. It’s like experiencing a quirky, delightful form of reverse pregnancy. While my mother didn’t always do things the way I preferred—a classic trait of motherhood—she imparted wisdom that has stayed with me, and I cherish that.
Here are some invaluable lessons I’ve gleaned from my mother, which I now share with my daughter, and perhaps you might find them meaningful too.
- “Choose a hairstyle that complements your face shape. Length doesn’t matter; it’s all about how it frames you. Anyone can wear long, lifeless hair—why aim for that?”
- “It’s ‘different from,’ not ‘different than!’”
- “When you jump, bend your knees upon landing! Your joints will thank you.”
- “To put on a shirt, pull it straight down. If you shove your whole face through, you’ll ruin the elastic!”
- “When you itch, scratch around the wound, not over it. That way, you’ll avoid scarring.”
- “Don’t spoil your dinner!”
- “Disney movies are a false representation of childhood. Let’s watch Sweeney Todd, The Demon Barber of Fleet Street together instead—popcorn included!”
- “The secrets to life? Basting every ten minutes, a little Formula 409, and a dash of rouge.”
- “I’m totally fine that you prefer store-bought dressing over my special oil, vinegar, paprika, and salt-from-my-own-tears recipe.”
- “Keep your focus. Never look left or right—just stay on the ball.”
- “Not all rules are meant to be followed. Some are essential, but others? Feel free to break them.”
As I approach my fortieth birthday, I’ve finally come to appreciate the wisdom in disregarding certain rules of addition.
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In summary, the lessons passed down from my mother serve as guiding principles in shaping my approach to parenting and life. I hope to instill the same sense of wisdom and joy in my daughter as I navigate this journey together.