Ah, the joy of a girls’ night out! From the popcorn-filled laughter of our first sleepovers to the grandmas with stylish poodle hair owning the bingo halls, spending time with the girls is a cherished tradition that will never fade. However, as I navigate life with two toddlers under two, I’ve noticed that my preparation for these special nights has shifted dramatically.
Pre-Kids: Getting Ready for a Night Out
- Crank up the tunes to set the mood.
- Pour myself a generous glass of wine.
- Peruse my closet, contemplating the perfect outfit. A few trial runs are a must!
- Indulge in a leisurely shower, exfoliating, shaving, and washing my hair.
- Moisturize my legs, apply makeup, and blow-dry or style my hair.
- Refill the wine glass and turn up the music a notch.
- Check in with my girlfriends to coordinate outfits and plans.
- Dive back into my closet to finalize the ideal outfit, shoes, and accessories.
- If I haven’t had a mani/pedi recently, I’ll paint my nails.
- Enjoy a final sip of wine while waiting for my polish to dry.
- Call for a taxi and catch up on emails in the meantime.
- Snag my keys and head out the door.
Ah, what a delightful process! Who wouldn’t relish such a pampering experience at home?
Post-Kids: The New Reality of Getting Ready
- First, locate the remote to grab a fleeting 20 minutes of peace.
- Snack time for the kids—got to keep them happy!
- Frantically search for something that fits and isn’t maternity wear.
- No time for a shower? Dry shampoo and deodorant will have to do!
- Quick swipe of mascara and some cover-up for those pesky blemishes.
- Start prepping dinner while anxiously awaiting my partner’s return.
- Call him at work to urge him to come home immediately.
- Greet him at the door while feeding the little ones—handing over the parenting duties is a must!
- Attempt a speedy nail painting session, hoping nobody notices the mess.
- Realize I’m still on duty because I’m home—time for pajamas, teeth brushing, and bottles.
- Snuggly hugs goodbye, leaving me with a bit of snot on my skirt and smudged polish.
- Make a break for the door, turning back for a kiss to the little faces peering through the window.
It’s a whole new world, but the laughter and joy of girls’ night out still shine through, no matter how chaotic the prep may be!
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Summary:
The transformation of girls’ night out from pre-kids to post-kids is significant. While the joy of spending time with friends remains, the preparation has become a whirlwind of multitasking and quick fixes. Despite the chaos, the laughter and connection are what truly matter.