It was quite a day when I arrived at the studio a bit behind schedule and shared my earlier experience with some colleagues. Their responses ranged from “Are you certain?” to “Maybe it was just a misunderstanding?” It felt disheartening to sense their disbelief. After sharing the incident on my show’s Facebook page, I received an outpouring of support from fans, yet some feedback mirrored that of my co-workers—skepticism and questioning.
Every day, women and people of color face the dismissal of their experiences. We often hear phrases like:
- “You’re overreacting.”
- “You should toughen up.”
- “If you hadn’t done that…”
- “Think of it positively.”
- “That happened to me once, and I didn’t complain.”
So, I was inspired to discover that my media idol, Maya Johnson, founder of Women’s Empowerment Network, highlighted an incredibly simple yet powerful idea: “One of the most radical things you can do is believe women when they share their stories.”
Just imagine the impact of believing someone when they recount their experiences. Rather than jumping to conclusions, we should lean towards acceptance, especially when the narrative is not inherently positive. I once dated someone who dismissively remarked about a high-profile harassment case, saying, “Women often fabricate those stories.” While my own experiences, like being pulled over twice without incident, don’t equate to assault, they share a common thread of disbelief and dismissal.
I find it exhilarating to witness the collective power we hold as women, minorities, and advocates for change. Our voices can create significant ripples in society. To those who hesitate to speak out, remember this: you possess immense power—the power to believe. Embrace it.
Reflecting on my commute through Washington Heights—a vibrant community of Dominican-Americans to a suburban area where people of color are scarce—I recall a specific incident from 2008. As I transitioned off the Palisades, I observed three vehicles stopped by the police. To my right was a van driven by a Latino man, while to my left, a brown-skinned man was behind the wheel of a sedan. After letting a car driven by a white man pass, the officer made eye contact with me and gestured for me to pull over.
“Where are you from?” he demanded, leaning against my open window.
“Uh, Manhattan,” I replied, gripping the steering wheel. My voice, polished from years in broadcasting, seemed to catch him off guard. “I’m actually the host of a show on CNBC and I’m on my way to the studio. Can I show you my ID?”
He nodded, and I retrieved my company ID from my bag. Without any explanation or apology, he handed it back and waved me along.
Driving away, I felt a mix of anger and anxiety. I was clearly swept up in an undocumented worker check. Was this even legal? I worried about those left behind. It was an unsettling experience, and it would have been comforting if my colleagues had believed me.
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In summary, believing women’s experiences and supporting their voices can create a powerful change in our society. Every day, we have the opportunity to uplift one another and foster a culture of understanding and acceptance.