As I watch my children tumble out of my minivan like a circus act, it’s hard to believe that just a few years back I was overwhelmed with tears, questioning my chances of ever being a mom. Thanks to modern medicine, a lot of faith, and a sprinkle of luck, I now have three beautiful daughters—ages five, nearly four, and almost three.
Adapting to life as the ringmaster of my own circus, I often get asked how I manage it all, or I receive incredulous looks as if I’ve lost my mind. So, if you’re considering diving into the whirlwind of having three kids in three years, here’s a glimpse into the reality behind our busy family life…
1. The Comedic Comments Never End
Every day, I’m met with a barrage of off-color jokes about my situation. “You know how that happens, right?” seems to be a universal punchline that every old man thinks is clever. While I appreciate a good laugh, I wish they could come up with something fresh. I’ve fantasized about creative comebacks, like breaking into song or staring them down until they awkwardly retreat—but I usually let it slide. After all, who knows how many chuckles they have left in them?
2. Multi-tasking is My New Normal
I’ve become so skilled at juggling tasks that I find it hard to stop. My partner, Dave, often gets frustrated because I can’t just sit and chat post-dinner; I’m up sweeping or preparing lunches while pretending to listen. This began when I was pregnant with my third and needed to master doing several things at once—think barfing, breastfeeding, and diaper changes simultaneously. Now, I even manage chores while tackling my taxes. Every day is about efficiency; my children are like sharks that need to keep moving or risk everything falling apart!
3. Embracing Corner-Cutting
In the world of parenting, “cutting corners” can be synonymous with a little bit of laziness. When my three-year-old claims she’s wiped herself, I want to believe her—until I notice the flies buzzing around her shorts the next day. With my husband often working long hours, I declare “National Mom’s Checked Out Day” to recharge. On these days, breakfast might consist of popcorn and TV, and brushing teeth could be a missed activity. By embracing a little chaos, I can hit the reset button and keep everyone afloat.
4. Benefits of Close Age Gaps
Having children so close in age comes with its perks. They share everything—friends, toys, and clothes—which makes life a bit easier. Sure, it can be tricky when they hit their teenage years, but right now, they’re in the same swim classes and sports teams. I even dream of their future together, like a big Brady-style wedding.
After nearly three years of navigating the ups and downs of raising three little ones, I feel like we’re finally finding our rhythm. Yes, there are meltdowns and unexpected incidents—like the little one peeing on me—but for the most part, our home is a lively, joyful chaos. However, every day brings its own challenges, and I know I’m just one breakdown away from a spontaneous getaway!
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Summary:
Raising three kids in three years can be both chaotic and rewarding. From mastering multi-tasking to embracing corner-cutting days, every moment is an adventure. While there are challenges along the way, the joy of watching them grow together makes it all worthwhile.