Let’s be honest: chores aren’t anyone’s favorite pastime. Back in my college days, I was known for my aversion to cleaning. I remember my sheets going unwashed throughout an entire year, turning a once-bright white into a questionable beige. My roommate, in her infinite wisdom, nudged me to keep the streak alive when I contemplated washing them. It was terrible, I know, yet I found myself easily swayed.
Once summer rolled around, I tossed those sheets and promised myself I’d do better. Fast forward to today, and while I might have improved in some areas, my dislike for chores—especially dishes and laundry—remains as strong as ever since my graduation in 2003. Now, as a parent, I find myself doing these tasks more often, but it’s mainly because I want my kids to live in a clean environment. Funny how my priorities shifted!
Looking back, I realize my sister and I had a pretty cushy childhood when it came to chores. Our rooms were often tidied up for us, and my laundry was done without much effort on my part. I barely remember lifting a finger around the house. While there’s definitely something to be said for letting kids enjoy their youth, I also think that learning to pitch in helps them transition into adulthood more smoothly.
With my daughter now almost 5, I’ve decided it’s time for her to take on some age-appropriate responsibilities. Not only do I want to avoid being the household’s sole caretaker, but I also want her to get accustomed to helping out. Let’s face it; with one kid attached to me and the other creating mayhem, I’m more than happy to embrace her eagerness to assist. Here are eight chores you can absolutely delegate to your little ones:
- Wet Swiffering: Kids love anything involving water, so why not let them handle the Swiffer? You can take a moment to scroll through your phone while knowing the kitchen floor will be just a bit cleaner by the time you check back in.
- Toy Donation: This isn’t just a seasonal activity! We often bag up toys throughout the year—about 18 times, to be exact. Frame it as making room for new gifts, and your kids will be stuffing bags full in no time. It’s a win-win situation that also teaches them about generosity.
- Cooking and Baking: Sure, this might be more of a fun, educational experience than a practical one. Let your kids help with safe tasks like stirring and measuring ingredients. Who knows? One day you might just get a home-cooked meal out of it!
- Sweeping: If my daughter had her way, she’d sweep all day. Although she might not exactly get every corner, she’s definitely made a dent in the mess at home. Plus, it’s adorable to see her tackling the task with her little broom.
- Putting Away Clothes: Kids know where their belongings belong. Even if it takes them all day, there’s no reason my four-year-old can’t shove her clothes into the right drawers, even if we skip the folding part.
- Dressing Themselves: Let your kids wear whatever they want, even if it’s mismatched or oversized. This simple act can save you from morning battles, allowing them to express their independence.
- “Washing the Dishes”: This one deserves air quotes because it usually leads to more mess than clean dishes. However, it does free up your time for other tasks, like binge-watching your favorite shows while they create a mini-water park in the kitchen.
- Feeding the Baby: On the rare occasions I strap on the breast pump, my little one jumps at the chance to help with bottle feeding. If only she could handle the pumping too!
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In summary, involving your children in household chores can not only lighten your load but also teach them valuable life skills. By delegating tasks like sweeping, cooking, and organizing, you’re helping them develop a sense of responsibility while making your home a more manageable space.