Motherhood feels like a whirlwind. One moment, you’re welcoming your little one into the world, navigating sleepless nights filled with cries and diaper changes, and the next, you’re watching them tumble off the couch as they start to walk. The years fly by in a blur of school drop-offs, guitar lessons, and playdates—seriously, who can keep track? It’s a constant cycle, and yes, we’re having broccoli again for dinner.
Then come the birthday parties and school trips, each one bringing its own set of tears and the urgent need for hot chocolate, and oh no, we’re out of marshmallows! And just when you think it’s settled, hormones kick in. You’re dealing with everything from homework to heartbreak, and suddenly, your teenager is keeping secrets, like the time you found rolling papers in their drawer.
Next thing you know, they’re off to college, leaving you in a cloud of silence. It’s like you’ve become a distant memory—“Oh yeah, that’s just my mom, she’s a bit out of touch.” Texting your college student? Good luck! They’re too busy living their best life to respond.
I was reminded of this when J.K. Simmons, during his Oscar acceptance speech, urged everyone to call their parents. “If you have a parent still on this planet, call them. Don’t text, don’t e-mail. Call them and let them know you love them.” I thought about posting this on my son Jake’s Facebook wall but decided against it.
I recently visited Jake in Chicago for a play, and from the moment I arrived, he was swamped with activities—papers to write, performances to give, and a cappella practice that lasted until the early hours. I mean, sleep? What’s that?
To lighten the mood, I’m sharing five screenshots of texts I sent during Jake’s first year at college—texts that went unanswered, but hey, one day he’ll be in my shoes, sending frantic messages about his own child’s peculiarities.
- When I was away for a couple of days.
- When two weeks went by without a word.
- Later that same day, then two days later, and again three days later.
- On his birthday, which included a few calls.
- During finals week.
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In summary, motherhood is a chaotic journey filled with unanswered texts, unending love, and the hope that one day your child will appreciate all that you’ve done.