For those curious about the dynamics of having both partners working from home, here’s a lighthearted look at what that life entails.
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You instantly gain a personal team of helpers. Forget interns; you have a built-in proofreader, a sounding board, an IT specialist, a printer-ink restocker, and if you ask nicely, a coffee maker who can whip up that second pot.
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No more texting required. Unless one of us is out for a brief work trip, we rarely spend more than three hours apart. I ditched my cell phone years ago, and honestly, it’s a relief—texting just isn’t my thing.
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Your thoughts often become vocalized. For instance, if I were in a traditional office, I wouldn’t randomly exclaim, “Ugh, not the rice pilaf farts again!” But at home, those kinds of comments are commonplace, and my partner knows exactly what I mean since he had the same dish last night.
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Conversations can become quite dull. I miss the juicy office gossip! My knowledge is limited to what’s happening with me, my husband, and our daughter. So please, don’t ask me, “What’s new?” because the honest answer is usually “Nothing at all!”
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Date nights can lose their excitement. When my husband suggested a date night recently, I blurted out, “With you?” It’s not that I love him any less; it’s just that I spend so much time together—how many hours can we really fill?
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Lunch dates, however, are a different story. I absolutely adore our spontaneous afternoon outings. They feel like skipping work, combining fun and romance in one perfect package. Plus, the theaters are practically empty during matinees, leaving us free to enjoy our time without bumping elbows with strangers while we share a kiss.
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You find yourself listening to your partner’s work stories. While at an office, I might find coworkers annoying, but at home, I’m often on autopilot listening to my husband discuss his studies and teaching. Truthfully, I can’t quite grasp all the details of what he does!
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You always have a supportive ally by your side. My husband and I may be in close quarters much of the time, but when we moved from a two-bedroom to a three-bedroom home, I insisted we have separate offices. Even though our daughter shares her nursery with some office equipment, it allows us both the space we need to work. Freelancers often face financial uncertainty, so it’s comforting to have someone to lean on while we navigate our careers together.
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In summary, working from home with your partner can be quirky and fun, filled with unique challenges and rewarding moments. Embrace the journey together!