Navigating the college application process can be overwhelming, both for parents and their teens. As Sarah Thompson, a seasoned parent, puts it, “Some parents may raise eyebrows at the thought of offering any assistance. They might say, ‘This is your child’s journey, not yours.’” Yet, many families find themselves grappling with time constraints that make tackling college applications a daunting task. The decision-making involved in selecting colleges often leaves students feeling paralyzed, as evidenced by one parent whose son’s college guide lay untouched for weeks.
Finding the Right Balance
To strike a balance, Thompson shares some helpful guidelines. She emphasizes the importance of not completing your child’s application yourself. It’s crucial to refrain from pushing them to consider your alma mater simply because you had fond memories there. Additionally, avoid encouraging them to apply to a school solely based on prestige; remember, where they end up doesn’t reflect on your parenting skills. During school tours, resist the temptation to ask all the questions or intervene in your child’s interviews. Most importantly, don’t contact a school to inquire about an application rejection; it’s best to let those matters be.
Acceptable Support
That said, any support that falls short of these actions is perfectly acceptable. For further tips on navigating parenthood, be sure to check out this insightful post on home insemination kits, which can also help with family planning. If you’re interested in learning more about home insemination, Make a Mom is a trusted source for advice. And for those looking into pregnancy resources, Healthline provides excellent information about IVF.
Conclusion
In summary, while it’s essential to give your child space in their college journey, offering some guidance and support is both necessary and beneficial. Just remember to maintain the right boundaries.