Being a working mom comes with its fair share of challenges. You often face the scrutiny of others who question your commitment to raising your children. There’s the initial chaos of returning to work, feeling sleep-deprived and frazzled. Then there are the daily hurdles like breast pump issues and the endless cycle of cleaning the necessary gear. And, of course, there’s the overwhelming guilt that accompanies every decision.
As your little ones grow from tiny bundles into curious toddlers, the stakes seem to rise. You may find yourself missing significant milestones, such as their first smile, word, or step. Important events at preschool, like performances or Mother’s Day celebrations, might slip through your fingers, leaving you to juggle the roles of a dedicated professional and a loving mother. Often, it’s you who feels let down.
But the most gut-wrenching part of being a working mom? When your child is unwell. All they want is their mommy, yet someone else has to step in to provide comfort—a babysitter, a teacher, or a family member. Your baby needs you, but you can’t be there. Instead, you’re left at work, anxiously glancing at your phone, hoping for updates or a picture that reassures you they’re okay.
Last night, as I prepared to leave for work, the weight of guilt was unbearable. My heart ached as I watched our little one, feverish and feeling miserable, reach out for me. She wanted to come with me, her eyes glistening with tears as she asked, “Can I please come with you?” Moments like these make me question everything, tempting me to abandon my job to focus solely on motherhood. But, having tried that, I know that it’s not as easy as it seems.
Working freelance does offer some flexibility; I can be home more than in a typical 9-to-5 job, scheduling interviews and editing around school hours. However, there are times when work demands my attention, and it always seems to coincide with when my kids need me the most.
I have newfound empathy for the moms I silently judged in my early career who arrived late due to their sick children. They were navigating the same struggles—missing deadlines, trying to balance their responsibilities, and dealing with the emotional toll of being a working parent.
The term “working mother” feels redundant because our children are always on our minds, regardless of where we are. Tomorrow, I’ll dive back into work, but today, I’ll relish every moment spent with my little one. For more insights on navigating the parenting landscape, check out this resource on infertility and learn about your options for home insemination.
In summary, being a working mom is a delicate balancing act filled with challenges, especially when it comes to your child’s health. As we navigate our careers while caring for our families, we learn the value of empathy and the importance of cherishing our time together.