Recently, I came across an article that stirred up quite a buzz, titled “I Get a Wife Bonus and I Deserve It, So STFU.” Written by a woman from an affluent background, the piece detailed how she receives a portion of her husband’s annual bonus as a reward for staying home with their child, allowing her to indulge in high-end fashion. While extravagant, it’s ultimately their financial decision.
Personally, I can’t relate to spending thousands on a pair of shoes, but who am I to criticize? If you have the means and those shoes give you the confidence to tackle daily parenting, then by all means, go for it!
As a stay-at-home mom, I find countless bonuses in my daily life. While my “bonuses” might not be designer labels, they are treasures in their own right. Here’s a list of the things I’m happy to call my Wife Bonuses:
- Clean Water. It flows right from my tap! Like magic! My kids are only thirsty when it’s midnight and they’re on a mission to disrupt my sleep.
- A Cozy Roof Overhead. Roofs are fantastic, especially during rainstorms and the long winter months we experience here in Colorado. My husband, the genius he is, provides this for us while working hard outside our home.
- Unnecessary Treats from Target. There’s a thrill in buying a $15 shirt that I don’t need but just had to have. It’s like a little rush of youthful rebellion!
- Footwear. I actually have shoes on my feet without having to earn them the traditional way! Sure, I do the cooking, cleaning, budgeting, and I’ve birthed two kids, plus I support my husband’s ventures. But hey, shoes!
- Access to Healthcare. When my kids fall ill, I can take them to a doctor and secure medication the same day. The value of this cannot be overstated!
- Raising Confident Kids. I’m instilling in my children that my self-worth isn’t tied to my appearance. Okay, okay, I do get my roots done every six weeks, but I try to keep it real!
- The Gift of Choice. I make all the decisions in our household. From meals to attire, I am the reigning queen of our domain. My search history reflects this power, and I try to wield it wisely.
- Quality Second-Hand Clothing for My Kids. They could care less about labels as long as their clothes twirl and dazzle in the sunlight.
- The Ultimate Wife Bonus? While some might say a Birkin bag is the pinnacle of luxury, I believe the real bonus is teaching my children that material things don’t define their worth.
Life can be challenging enough; let’s not complicate it further by stressing over material possessions.
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In summary, being a wife and mother comes with its own set of rewards that may not be glamorous but are deeply fulfilling. From the everyday joys to the significant choices, I embrace the perks of my role wholeheartedly.