The days of chasing after my three energetic boys at the park or cleaning chocolate smudges off their little faces are long gone. Now that two of them are teenagers, my household is still a whirlwind of noise and energy, with a hefty dose of testosterone. While I sometimes find myself reminiscing about their younger years, when I could scoop them up for a quick hug, I’ve come to appreciate the unexpected joys of having teen boys. Here are ten benefits that I never anticipated while they were still toddlers.
1. No More Shower Battles
Teenage boys are suddenly invested in their appearance. No longer do I need to remind them to shower. They’re eager to impress their crushes, and that makes my life a lot easier!
2. Freedom to Express Myself
As a mom who sometimes lets a curse word slip, I’ve found that my teenage boys are more likely to high-five me than scold me. It’s refreshing to share a laugh over a well-timed expletive.
3. Minimal Clothing Expenses
When it comes to fashion, teenage boys have a minimalistic approach. A few favorite outfits are all they need. T-shirts and shorts are their go-to, and jeans or athletic pants do the trick when it gets chilly.
4. Dad Takes the Lead on Tough Talks
I get a break from the awkward conversations! My husband handles the “birds and the bees” discussions, including topics about puberty and grooming. Phew!
5. Hugs Are Always Welcome
While they may go through phases where hugging Dad feels silly, my boys still embrace me without hesitation. I’m always their safe space for affection.
6. Quiet Moments are Okay
Teenage boys aren’t known for their chatter, which works in my favor. On days when I’m not feeling chatty, their one-word answers and grunts provide the perfect excuse for a peaceful atmosphere.
7. Built-In Helpers
With their newfound strength and height, my teenage boys are always ready to lend a hand. Whether it’s reaching for something on a high shelf or moving furniture, they’re eager to show off their muscles.
8. Bathroom Privacy
Teenage boys seem to be terrified at the thought of encountering their mom in a vulnerable state. This newfound fear grants me uninterrupted bathroom time—a rare luxury!
9. Mastering the Art of Reading Emotions
When my teens are upset or anxious, I can read them like a book. They may mask their feelings around friends, but with me, their emotions are transparent.
10. Filling Their Stomachs
As teen boys are always hungry, I can serve them quick meals like Hot Pockets, frozen dinners, or leftovers without a second thought. As long as there’s plenty of food, they’re content!
For now, I’m enjoying the experience of being a mom to teenage boys. However, I know that as my oldest approaches milestones like learning to drive, my perspective may shift. If you’re navigating similar parenting challenges, you might want to explore resources on pregnancy and home insemination available at Women’s Health or check out the excellent options at Make a Mom.
In conclusion, while raising teenagers comes with its own set of challenges, it also offers unexpected joys and advantages.