For months, my partner and I debated the perfect name for our little princess. We were smitten with the name Olivia, but ultimately avoided it because it ranked among the top three most popular names. We aimed for something a bit “different.” After considering names like Avery and Caroline, we finally landed on Charlotte, convinced we had chosen a rare gem since we didn’t know anyone else with that name.
Apparently, I live in a bubble and could use a few more friends. A few weeks ago, I attended a baptism class, and wouldn’t you know it, a woman sitting behind me had a daughter named Charlotte too! When it came time for our little one’s baptism, guess what? The baby next to us was also named Charlotte. And then the cherry on top – the Royals went and named their baby Charlotte! WHY, oh why?!
If anyone else in the world named their daughter Charlotte, I’d be all for it, thinking they had excellent taste. But the fact that it’s the Princess of practically the entire world? Seriously, is it too late for a name change? Now, my daughter is destined to be one of at least ten thousand “Charlottes” in her class.
I’m genuinely considering a name change. It might not seem too complicated, but explaining to everyone why we switched her name at six months would be a massive headache. Friends and family would definitely think I’d lost my mind, and we’d have to deal with all the personalized items we’ve accumulated. Maybe I could send the monogrammed stuff to Kate and William in hopes of receiving a handwritten note and some doughnuts, just like those lucky folks outside the hospital. That would be a nice touch.
Of course, I don’t know the Royals personally (though I’m convinced Kate and I would be best friends), so it’s not like they’re copying us. Still, I can’t shake the feeling that for the next 5-10 years, Charlotte will be the name to have. It’s a bummer.
To my little Charlotte: I’m genuinely sorry we dropped the ball on the naming front. I have a feeling this won’t be the last time I’ll stumble over the next eighteen years, so you better prepare yourself. For now, my best bet is to come up with an adorable nickname for you.
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In summary, while Charlotte may be a beautiful name, it seems our pick is far from unique. As I face the challenges of motherhood, I’m reminded that the journey is filled with surprises and laughter, and maybe a few name changes along the way.