If you’re thinking, “Oh boy, that sounds like me!” it may be time to prioritize better sleep, a balanced diet, and consult with your healthcare provider about any concerning memory issues.
However, it’s more likely that your forgetfulness isn’t a sign of dementia but simply a result of managing a hectic life filled with work, family, chores, and errands—no wonder you’re considering hiring an assistant to help keep track of everything!
If your to-do lists aren’t cutting it, and your reminder apps are overwhelmed, don’t worry. I’ve spent years compiling a toolkit of clever tricks to combat forgetfulness. Here are some of my top suggestions:
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Problem: “I recognize you, but your name escapes me.”
You’re shopping for cereal, lost in thought, when someone greets you enthusiastically. This person knows your name and even mentions your child, yet you’re left wondering where you know them from. Was it from the school board or a community group?Solution: Keep it light and general.
Talking about the weather is a classic move. If the weather is dull, you can always pivot to some extreme weather events happening globally (thanks, climate change!). To stay on the safe side, refer to everyone as “Buddy” or “Friend.” If you prefer a more casual approach, try “Sport” or “Pal.” -
Problem: “Mom, you forgot me at violin practice AGAIN!”
Solution: Spin it as a teaching moment.
Tell your child you were testing her emergency response skills! Ask her how she would handle the situation if you didn’t show up. Throw in some fun hypothetical questions—like “How fast can you run from dogs?”—and end the conversation with ice cream to celebrate her quick thinking. -
Problem: You can never find your keys or phone.
Solution: Embrace a unique lifestyle.
Conventional wisdom suggests putting your keys in a designated spot or using a designated shelf for your phone. But let’s be real—habits are tough to change at this age! Why not just adopt a new persona? Go off-grid, grow out your hair, and listen to folk music. -
Problem: “Where did I park my car?”
Solution: Drive a memorable vehicle.
Choose an old, scrappy car that stands out—like a beat-up station wagon. Trust me, no one will park near you. Plus, if it’s a little banged up, people will assume you’re not concerned about your car’s looks, making it easier to spot. -
Problem: “Happy belated birthday, Mother’s Day, or anniversary!”
Solution: Apologize sincerely.
When you miss important dates, any excuse will sound flimsy. Instead, learn to apologize in various languages and offer to treat your loved one to something nice—maybe a movie night filled with classic rom-coms. Or just volunteer to clean out the fridge!
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In summary, while forgetfulness can be frustrating, it’s often a normal part of life’s busyness. By adopting a few clever strategies and maintaining a light-hearted attitude, you can navigate your daily challenges more smoothly.
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